Happy Valentine's Day!

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Valentine’s Day doesn’t rank highly on my list of important days. As CC Chapman said, if you need a holiday to show someone you love that you care, you have serious issues you need to address in your relationship.

Happy Valentine's Day! 1 Combine that with crass commercialism and an attempt to raid your wallet through your heart by major corporations (check the stocks of 1-800-FLOWERS today – ticker: FLWS, FTD ticker: FTD, Red Envelope ticker: REDE) and you have a day I’m not wildly thrilled about.

So let’s rearrange the day of showing love a bit.

Figure out what you’d spend on an average Valentine’s Day among flowers, gifts, dinner, cards, and the other corporate subsidies pop culture asks you to buy. Total all that up, and then make a contribution to your significant other’s favorite charity instead, in their name. If you’re going to spend money today, spend it on something that will show true love – a contribution to an organization that will serve the greater good.

There’s no shortage of charities to choose from, and tons of good causes. Check out Charity Navigator to find efficiency ratings of various charities, to see how your money is used and what percentage of each dollar goes to actually help the people or causes you donated to help. Every non-profit charity with 501(c)(3) status is also required to disclose its IRS 990, so you can inspect for yourself how they use their money.

Make Valentine’s Day about love – love not only for your significant other, but about love for your world, your community, and the greater good. As my teacher Stephen K. Hayes says, there is no greater way to serve yourself and make yourself happier than to help others.

Got a charity you want to promote? Post a link to it in the comments!

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21 responses to “Happy Valentine's Day!”

February 14, 2008

Susan Reynolds

One of the newest charitable funds many of you have never heard about is the Frozen Pea Fund. http://frozenpeafund.com

Set up over a few days in Late December 2007 with the help of the American Cancer Society, it came into being after my friend Connie Reece learned that I not only had invasive breast cancer and had used frozen peas as an ice pack during my biopsy, but my mastectomy was scheduled the same week that I saw the surgeon.

This cancer was scary and it was fast. So that’s how Connie worked to set up the fund, with a widget provided by the ACS that whisks the online donation into their account without us needing to waste moments on counting dollars when we could be talking about cancer and spreading the word.

This week we received our first corporate donor when ooVoo selected the Frozen Pea Fund to benefit from “my ooVoo day with . .” based on the community focus of our effort. Lest you be misled though, our average contribution is very small time something like $30 average, in keeping with our grassroots beginning where participants were asked to donate five dollars each Friday, this number representing about the cost of two packs of frozen peas.

If you’re thinking of doing something simple that would make a huge difference I can guarantee that your gift through us will keep us encouraged to make the http://frozenpeafund.com the new kind of community sharing project that it can be,

A click to donate button is on the page to make it painless to reach out and share. Please know how much we appreciate your considering us.

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February 14, 2008

Whitney Hoffman

Thanks for this post, Chris! I am raising money for a school for autistic children in China-

http://ldpodcast.chipin.com/ma-chen-autism-school-in-china

Thanks for the opportunity to post this here, and I hope people will consider giving. At the end of the month, we’ll make our first wire to Ma Chen, and we’ll close out the whole campaign in 60 days. Any and all money goes directly to Ma Chen- I pay all transfer fees and costs!

Whitney

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February 14, 2008

Geoff Manning

Great thought Chris, now if you could explain this to my wife 😉

Here is a charity that my wife and I contribute to. It is the Boys and Girls Club of Brockton. They do not accept donations through their website (I am working with them to fix that).

Here is the link to the main site:
http://www.bgcbrockton.org/

And a link to the page with the donation info:
http://www.bgcbrockton.org/main.asp?id=3

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February 14, 2008

Whitney Hoffman

Thanks for this post, Chris! I am raising money for a school for autistic children in China-

http://ldpodcast.chipin.com/ma-chen-autism-school-in-china

Thanks for the opportunity to post this here, and I hope people will consider giving. At the end of the month, we’ll make our first wire to Ma Chen, and we’ll close out the whole campaign in 60 days. Any and all money goes directly to Ma Chen- I pay all transfer fees and costs!

Whitney

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February 14, 2008

Doug Haslam

What a great idea Chris!
I am starting to raise money for the Jimmy Fund as I prepare to ride the Pan Mass Challenge this fall. You can pledge to me here:
http://www.pmc.org/egifts/giftinfo.asp?EgiftID=DH0159

Or “Chipin” at DougHaslam.com

Thanks!

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February 14, 2008

Doug Haslam

What a great idea Chris!
I am starting to raise money for the Jimmy Fund as I prepare to ride the Pan Mass Challenge this fall. You can pledge to me here:
http://www.pmc.org/egifts/giftinfo.asp?EgiftID=DH0159

Or “Chipin” at DougHaslam.com

Thanks!

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February 14, 2008

Ann Handley

I dunno — I kinda like Valentine’s Day. Not because I have trouble remembering to show love the rest of the year and not because I expect overpriced roses.. because I don’t… but because it’s a nice opp to be a little more mindful and act a little silly. Plus, kids dig it… and I’m a soft touch for my kids. It’s not about the money — it’s about attitude.

That said, I do like the idea of spreading the love to our communities and to the greater good, especially to the organizations we care about. But I see that sort of thing as in addition to.. not instead of. I mean, if I don’t have a cheesy heart card for my little girl, well… it won’t be pretty. (lol…)

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February 14, 2008

Ann Handley

I dunno — I kinda like Valentine’s Day. Not because I have trouble remembering to show love the rest of the year and not because I expect overpriced roses.. because I don’t… but because it’s a nice opp to be a little more mindful and act a little silly. Plus, kids dig it… and I’m a soft touch for my kids. It’s not about the money — it’s about attitude.

That said, I do like the idea of spreading the love to our communities and to the greater good, especially to the organizations we care about. But I see that sort of thing as in addition to.. not instead of. I mean, if I don’t have a cheesy heart card for my little girl, well… it won’t be pretty. (lol…)

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February 14, 2008

John Wall

Yes, a letter or a card can go just as far (or even much farther) than some flowers that were $50 less last week and will be$ 50 less next week…

My favorite Boston charity is the Franciscan Hospital for Children, the accept donations on their site:
http://www.franciscanhospital.org

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February 14, 2008

John Wall

Yes, a letter or a card can go just as far (or even much farther) than some flowers that were $50 less last week and will be$ 50 less next week…

My favorite Boston charity is the Franciscan Hospital for Children, the accept donations on their site:
http://www.franciscanhospital.org

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February 14, 2008

Sarah Vela

Another wonderful thing to do for Valentine’s Day is to donate blood — doesn’t cost you a penny, comes straight from the heart. You and your sweetie can go together!

Charities I love:
Amnesty International http://www.amnesty.org
Doctors Without Borders http://www.msf.org
Oxfam America http://www.oxfamamerica.org
Partners In Health http://www.pih.org
Heifer International http://www.heifer.org

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February 14, 2008

Sarah Vela

Another wonderful thing to do for Valentine’s Day is to donate blood — doesn’t cost you a penny, comes straight from the heart. You and your sweetie can go together!

Charities I love:
Amnesty International http://www.amnesty.org
Doctors Without Borders http://www.msf.org
Oxfam America http://www.oxfamamerica.org
Partners In Health http://www.pih.org
Heifer International http://www.heifer.org

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February 14, 2008

Beth Kanter

Here’s mine: http://www.sharingfoundation.org

But I did a round up of charities doing special V-Day’s campaigns – there’s many ways to say I Love You with a gift to charity
http://beth.typepad.com/beths_blog/2008/02/the-many-ways-t.html

You’ve got to love the mating ring tones that support environmental groups.

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February 14, 2008

Beth Kanter

Here’s mine: http://www.sharingfoundation.org

But I did a round up of charities doing special V-Day’s campaigns – there’s many ways to say I Love You with a gift to charity
http://beth.typepad.com/beths_blog/2008/02/the-many-ways-t.html

You’ve got to love the mating ring tones that support environmental groups.

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February 14, 2008

susanreynolds

One of the newest charitable funds many of you have never heard about is the Frozen Pea Fund. http://frozenpeafund.com

Set up over a few days in Late December 2007 with the help of the American Cancer Society, it came into being after my friend Connie Reece learned that I not only had invasive breast cancer and had used frozen peas as an ice pack during my biopsy, but my mastectomy was scheduled the same week that I saw the surgeon.

This cancer was scary and it was fast. So that’s how Connie worked to set up the fund, with a widget provided by the ACS that whisks the online donation into their account without us needing to waste moments on counting dollars when we could be talking about cancer and spreading the word.

This week we received our first corporate donor when ooVoo selected the Frozen Pea Fund to benefit from “my ooVoo day with . .” based on the community focus of our effort. Lest you be misled though, our average contribution is very small time something like $30 average, in keeping with our grassroots beginning where participants were asked to donate five dollars each Friday, this number representing about the cost of two packs of frozen peas.

If you’re thinking of doing something simple that would make a huge difference I can guarantee that your gift through us will keep us encouraged to make the http://frozenpeafund.com the new kind of community sharing project that it can be,

A click to donate button is on the page to make it painless to reach out and share. Please know how much we appreciate your considering us.

Reply
February 14, 2008

Geoff Manning

Great thought Chris, now if you could explain this to my wife 😉

Here is a charity that my wife and I contribute to. It is the Boys and Girls Club of Brockton. They do not accept donations through their website (I am working with them to fix that).

Here is the link to the main site:
http://www.bgcbrockton.org/

And a link to the page with the donation info:
http://www.bgcbrockton.org/main.asp?id=3

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February 16, 2008

Sean

Good post, Chris.

John, I also donate to the Fransiscan Children Hostipital. Never checked out their website though.

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February 16, 2008

Sean

Good post, Chris.

John, I also donate to the Fransiscan Children Hostipital. Never checked out their website though.

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October 3, 2008

Ben G

Cool ideas!

I love the concept of subverting the consumeristic tendancies of our culture and instead donating to mission driven organizations…excellent!

This is an extremely worthy local organization providing support and wellness programs for people with cancer, their caregivers and health care professionals:

http://www.centerforcancer.org

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October 3, 2008

Ben G

Cool ideas!

I love the concept of subverting the consumeristic tendancies of our culture and instead donating to mission driven organizations…excellent!

This is an extremely worthy local organization providing support and wellness programs for people with cancer, their caregivers and health care professionals:

http://www.centerforcancer.org

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October 3, 2008

Ben G

Cool ideas!

I love the concept of subverting the consumeristic tendancies of our culture and instead donating to mission driven organizations…excellent!

This is an extremely worthy local organization providing support and wellness programs for people with cancer, their caregivers and health care professionals:

http://www.centerforcancer.org

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