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  • We become the company we keep, part 2

    In part 1, written last summer, I encouraged you to use the nearly unlimited power of social media to build the kind of inspirational network you need as a foundation for success. We tend to become the company we keep, so why not use social media to find the examples of success and happiness that you want more of in your life?

    Leeches - the cure for everything!The flip side of the coin is that we tend to become the company we keep. If we surround ourselves with bitter, angry, uninspiring people who do nothing but urinate into our mental pool, we go that route too – and unlike positive, inspiring people, it doesn’t take much. As Tony Robbins once quipped, you don’t need to drink a gallon of poison to have an effect – just a little is more than enough.

    Go open Twitter or Facebook right now. Take a look at the people who put stuff into your head ever fleetingly, 140 characters at a time. Is their stuff good for you or bad for you? When you read what they have to say, do you feel better or worse? When you hear them speak, do you feel energized and excited or cynical and dismissive? Do they use their social media channels to inspire with stories about people in their lives who have helped them or whine about the poor service someone gave them?

    It’s easy to tolerate negativity and incredibly poisonous to do so. Sometimes you feel socially obligated to if it’s a close friend or someone you care about. Here’s a nifty, somewhat sneaky antidote to those people. First, create a network with a lot of people in it. Tons. Follow everyone that you can that’s inspiring to you. This increases the probability that whenever you do open a social network, the chances are good that someone will be saying something that brings some positive energy to your day. Next, to the extent that a social network permits you to, create a private list of positive, powerful, inspiring friends, folks who seem to always have something good to bring to the table. Finally, prune out those friends who don’t necessarily bring good cheer to you from that private, secret, quiet list of those that do, so that you don’t have to hurt someone’s feelings by cutting them out of your network, but you don’t have to put their baggage in your taxi either.

    You have enough negative forces in your life without voluntarily adding more to it with social media. Unlike a workplace or home, you have complete freedom to choose who you listen to in social media, to choose who you allow to influence you.

    Choose wisely for you become the company you keep.


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  • What the martial arts teach us about marketing basics

    DJ Waldow asked:

    We talk/preach a ton about “advanced email marketing” yet so many folks are stuck on basics. Refocus conversation? Thoughts?

    And Amber Naslund also commented:

    I wonder how much of our quest for “what’s next” is really centered in our uncomfortable misunderstanding of the basics.

    These are closely related. In the martial arts, the basics are so much more than just simile exercises. The Japanese word for basics is kihon, which means both basics and foundation, as in the foundation of a building. Starting martial arts practice with strong basics is like starting a building with two foot thick concrete and two inch thick rebar – a rock solid base on which to build. Skipping the basics or trying to hurry past them is like pouring the flimsiest foundation of cheap concrete. How large a house can you build on that?

    Dayton Quest Center Hombu DojoWhere the martial arts (good ones, anyway) differ is the continued emphasis on the basics. We learn the basics but constantly revisit them to refine our understanding and improve them. As our basics get stronger, the “advanced” material (which is comprised of basics strategically arranged and put together) improve as well. Because advanced material relies on the basics, if we stop refining them, our advanced skills and techniques suffer as well.

    Why don’t we like the basics? Why do we ignore them or skip past them? It’s human habit. We have a tendency to view knowledge as a discrete container. How to cook an egg? I know that. How to send an email campaign? I know that. Because of the way our education system works, we assume that once we know something, we possess that knowledge and don’t need to revisit it. Geometry? Learned that in 9th grade. Algebra? Learned that in 8th grade. As a result of this educational framework (which is learned), the habit of thinking that we’ve learned something persists into adulthood and our professional lives.

    Think about it this way. You once learned how to cook scrambled eggs. Has it ever occurred to you to research that simple breakfast dish some more and see what other ways you can make them? For example, you can add a touch of milk or cream to slow down the protein setting, giving you more control over cooking time. You can use an immersion blender to aerate the mixture and make your eggs lighter and fluffier. You can add salt in advance to give a more even flavor, or a small dash of truffle oil before cooking to increase the umami flavor. Ask a thousand ordinary non-chef folks how often they go back and revisit their scrambled eggs and the number wil be a very small minority. Yet if you are constantly and consistently improving your basics, is breakfast at your house going to get better or worse?

    Without rock solid, continuously refined basics, we won’t get the results we want. We’ll get folks stuck, as DJ says, or we’ll get folks who are discontent as Amber says.

    So how do you improve and refine your basics, instead of getting frustrated repeating the same thing over and over again? Well, repetition is where you start. You watch a master teacher demonstrate the basics, and then you work for a really long time to get your basics to that level. Along the way, your teacher will probably show you variations on the basics to help you better understand their essence. A teacher might show you, for example, what an egg scrambled in a cast iron pan tastes like vs. a non-stick pan. Once you’ve mastered the basics and distilled down their essence by practicing many, many variations, you’ll understand that essential core of the basics and be able to translate it to other things. For example, once you truly and deeply understand the chemistry, physics, and culinary aspects of scrambled eggs, suddenly things like mayonnaise and Hollandaise sauce become simple to grasp and simpler to make.

    What if you don’t have a teacher? Find one. Again, in the Japanese martial arts, the word for teacher is sensei, which literally means before born – someone who is farther down the path you’re on and can help you around all of the mistakes they’ve made blazing that trail. They’ll show you where they went wrong and if you’re a good student, you’ll make fewer of the mistakes than they did. They can help you recover from mistakes faster and with less harm than they incurred (which is why teachers are so respected – they’re saving you tremendous pain) than if you were flailing around blindly.

    If you feel like the basics elude you or that you’re discontent with the basics, whether it’s marketing, cooking, or martial arts, go find a good teacher and learn from them. The path always gets easier and more fun when you’ve got a great guide.

    If you’re in either the metro Boston or Dayton areas, be sure to check out my teachers, Sensei Mark Davis of the Boston Martial Arts Center and An-Shu Stephen K. Hayes of the Dayton Quest Center.


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  • What World of Warcraft: Cataclysm can teach you about appreciation

    WoW Cataclysm

    The third expansion pack to the World of Warcraft franchise, Cataclysm, will be coming out this year. Everything that players have known and loved for the last 5 years is on the table for a re-write, from how characters work to the virtual places and hangouts where players have spent their time for half a decade. It’s Blizzard Entertainment’s way of rebooting the franchise, changing up how it will work, and theoretically giving them room to continue growing the franchise.

    From a story perspective, the virtual world of Azeroth is going to be struck by a massive disaster that will shatter it, completely changing things and causing a lot of mayhem. Here’s what’s different about this disaster: we all know it’s coming some time this year.

    Some people are preparing by gathering up materials in game to sell later, anticipating shortages. Other people are touring the world of Azeroth as it is now, taking pictures and recording their favorite spots, many of which will no longer be available or will be changed beyond recognition. Some are running through dungeons and other parts of the game they’ve missed or never gotten to in five years of playing. Some are trying to maximize their characters’ gear and abilities so that they’re ready to experience all the new parts of the game the moment it hits the shelves.

    So here’s the food for thought part: if you knew with 100% certainty that a major disaster was going to befall this world, the real life world, in the next 5 months (but probably before November), and that you’d survive and have access to the basics like food and water, what would you do now to prepare? If you knew that everything from favorite restaurants to the mountains and seas themselves would be different somehow, what would you do differently today to get ready?

    Unlike World of Warcraft, we don’t get the luxury of a grand creator notifying us in advance of a major disaster (or allowing us to beta test life in it).

    Now that you’ve got an idea of where you’d go and what you’d do, how much of that is stuff you could do today?


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  • How much too much is it?

    One of my absolute favorite sales closes is the how much too much close. It’s a recession. Times are tough, budgets are tight, resources are constrained. We get that. I’m sure you get that many, many times a day from everyone you talk to who’s a potential customer. The trick with objections over price is amortization of the price.

    Let’s say you’re a web designer. You make beautiful web designs that cost $1,500 and perform very well for your clients. You know that a client with a good internal sales process can make that back in weeks, if not days, with a design that converts visitors to qualified leads.

    One day, you’re pitching a potential new client. You’ve established your credibility and demonstrated that you’ve got the chops to do what they want to do. There’s no question that they believe you can handle the work, and there’s no question in your mind either. It’s a home run…

    Greg, what did you say?until the first thing out of their mouth at the proposal stage is a price objection. “It’s too expensive” or a variant of that phrase. Rather than cutting your prices immediately (which is the most common tactic for a rookie salesperson), get specific.

    Mr. Penn, how much too much is the design? Are we a dollar over your budget? Help me understand where you are.

    The object of this close is to get them to name a number: it’s 500 too expensive for me. It’s100 too expensive for me. Whatever the number is, that’s what you need to get out of them. Once you have the number, go to work. In this example, let’s say the site is $500 too expensive. You’d amortize that at a daily rate over a year (500/365=1.37), then you might say something like:

    Mr. Penn, I understand how you feel. We’ve agreed that a new web site design could do wonders for your business, haven’t we? We’ve agreed that if it brings in even 1 new customer a month, your business will grow beyond your current plans and expectations, right? Think of your web site as an employee who never sleeps, who never calls in sick, who is always working for you day and night.

    Mr. Penn, do you have 1.37 right now? Yes, on you at this moment. Mr. Penn, that’s how much a day too much you’ve said your new web site is. Tell me, Mr. Penn, is1.37 a day too much to pay for such an incredible employee?

    Then shut up and wait to see what they say.

    Is this close guaranteed to work? Of course not. No sales close ever is, despite the marketing materials of the sales trainers out there. But as a tactic to help you sniff out whether price is the true objection and how far off the mark your proposal is, the how much too much close is invaluable. For green sales staff and freelance consultants with no sales training at all (like many, many folks I’ve seen consulting in social media), this close saves you from the gut instinct of cutting your worth (price) right off the bat – a useful tactic that could save you and your company thousands or even millions of dollars over time.


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  • Ben & Jerry's, thank you for surrendering

    Brand OverextensionI read with great interest about another company forsaking email marketing – this time, ice cream maker Ben & Jerry’s. Good. Thank you very much!

    Why am I thanking them? Here’s the thing about marketing in a global digital economy: you’re not competing with your regular competitors. Ben & Jerry’s isn’t just competing with rival ice cream maker Friendly’s. Ben & Jerry’s is competing with me. They’re competing with you, too.

    In the digital age, attention is the most prized commodity we can possibly have. Every message you receive has the potential to consume your attention for a split second or longer. A well-known, trusted brand like Ben & Jerry’s will automatically command more attention than a message from you or me. Think about that for a second. Ben & Jerry’s is known for doing lots of good things and for being generous. If there’s a message in your inbox with a free ice cream cone from them, chances are anything that you or I have to offer is probably going to pale in comparison.

    Happily for us, they’ve put themselves out of the running for attention in the inbox, clearing space and attention for the rest of us, and so I thank them.

    If you’re a competent marketer in the digital age, understand that you compete with everything and everyone for attention. Use every channel and avenue at your disposal, or risk losing share of mind with your prospects and customers.

    Disclosure: I work for an email marketing company. My viewpoint had better be biased or I’m doing it wrong.


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  • More customers doesn't make you a better company

    MarketingProfs AudienceI’ve been shopping around the past few days for a terrific lead automation system for the day job, looking at all of the different vendors out there. One thread that’s been common among all of the comparison discussions on LinkedIn, on blogs, etc. that baffles me is this argument:

    “We’re better because we have 42x more customers than any of our competitors, which shows that clearly we are the LEADER in our space!”

    This argument makes no sense to me. More customers doesn’t make you a better company. More customers just means you have more customers. In fact, it might make you a worse company. If you and your competitor both have 60 people on staff but you have 42x more customers, all that means is I’m 42x less likely to get customer support when I need it.

    If more customers were the benchmark of excellence, we’d all shop only at Wal-Mart for everything in life. They have more customers than anyone, right? Are they the best? If absolute numbers of customers were the mark of truly excellent service, logically wouldn’t the IRS (which has every taxpayer as a “customer”) be the best organization in the country to deal with?

    What’s at work here is a bit of Robert Cialdini’s bandwagon influence techniques (Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion Amazon link). The hope of these marketers, I suppose, is that by seeing lots of people doing business with a company, I’ll be persuaded that it’s somehow better, in the same way that social media “experts” try to convince you that because they’ve got 20,000 followers, they’re somehow more knowledgeable about social media.

    Sorry, gang. I’m not buying it. In this day and age when service, support, and care is needed more than ever, more customers as a sole metric of your worth means you just have less time for me.


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  • My upcoming webinar: email marketing for the 21st century

    New England XPOI’ll be doing a webinar on July 23 at 2 PM Eastern on 21st century email marketing, put on by my employer, Blue Sky Factory. In the webinar, I’ll be going over the 5 things every email marketer wants:

    1. More audience
    2. More delivery
    3. More opens
    4. More actions
    5. More/better metrics

    In terms of value, I’ll be covering a lot of new material, including what things you should be testing (we all talk about the importance of testing but no one ever helps you judge what should be tested in the first place), new ideas for content, and nearly instant ways to measure ROI.

    I’ve given previous versions of this talk at marketing conferences that charge hundreds or even thousands of dollars to attend. This webinar will be almost-free. There’s no out of pocket monetary cost, but in the spirit of full disclosure and setting expectations, you’ll get email and probably a phone call from a sales rep afterwards. The price of attendance is your attention, time, and a little bit of disk space for the email and voice mail message. If you think that’s a good value, then please feel free to sign up by clicking here.

    Lame FTC disclosure: Blue Sky Factory is my employer and thus your attendance at this webinar provides direct financial benefit to me. If I don’t suck at what I do, it should provide indirect financial benefit to you, too via making you a better marketer.


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  • Throwing mattresses and social media

    DoorOne of my favorite learning and teaching metaphors comes by way of both the martial arts and Quantum Teaching (Amazon link). Imagine for a moment that the knowledge you have to impart to students is in the shape of a mattress. Imagine that it’s immutable, meaning you can’t magically shrink it or carve it up.

    Now imagine that the minds of your students are like doorways, but a wide variety of doorways. Some have narrow doors. Some have french doors cast open. Some have a portcullis. Some have a screen door.

    Your job as a teacher is to fling the mattresses through the door into the students’ minds. Assuming you are strong enough and skilled enough to do so, this should be a relatively simple matter, right?

    Here’s the catch: when you are teaching more than one person, you have more than one shape of doorway to get through. This is why most teaching isn’t as effective as it could be. Many teachers learn in educator training to fling a mattress just one way. It’ll get through for some students, students who are attuned enough to that teacher’s style or whose doors are wide enough to accommodate nearly any teacher’s style. For a significant number of students, however, the mattress will at best get only partway in the door. For some students, it’ll just bounce off completely.

    The very best teachers can work around this in a couple of different ways. Some teachers, like my teacher Mark Davis of the Boston Martial Arts Center can teach so richly that they effectively fling a whole bunch of mattresses all at once, knowing that at least one will get through. They teach to visual, auditory, and kinesthetic learners all at the same time. This sort of teaching is powerful and effective, but unfortunately for our larger education system, it takes decades to master. Decades of teacher training is not an amount of time we can easily spare for educator training.

    For teachers who are not outright masters of education, there’s inspiration to be had from social media in the form of crowdsourcing. In education, its called collaborative learning and fundamentally it means that the teacher does the best they can to get the mattress in the door of as many students as their skill permits, then asks those students (who have their own method of conveying information that may be more compatible with fellow students) to help them get mattresses in the doors where the teacher missed.

    For marketers, the implications of social media should be much more clear now when it comes to conveying information to your audience. Unless you are a master marketer, your mattresses are going to miss just as teachers do. If you are lucky, clever, or don’t have many people to market to, you can mitigate this to some degree, but you’ll still miss an uncomfortably large number of times. (this is the heart of persona marketing, by the way – finding statistically the greatest number of doors that can be reached with the fewest mattress flings)

    If you can energize your customers and evangelists, not to sell for you but to help you teach what you have to offer, you’ll suddenly find more mattresses in more prospective doors than ever before.

    So, how are you throwing your mattresses, whether as an educator or marketer? Are you getting into as many doors as you would like? If not, take some inspiration from social media and consider getting help from your audience while you work towards the lifetime achievement of being a master mattress thrower.


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    When was the last time you heard a really great speaker?

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    When was the last time you acted on a follow recommendation on Twitter or a LinkedIn connection?

    I’d bet recently. The beauty of social media is that there’s an infinite choice of people to interact with and some of them are really, really worth your time. Insightful, witty, funny, amazing, smart, beautiful, whatever you want to describe them as, you’re swimming in a knowledge pool with thousands of these kinds of people.

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    I’d wager it’s been a while. For some of you, it’s been a long while.

    Here’s why this is important: you’ll lose touch otherwise. The curse of social media is that there’s so much to pay attention to – even legitimate, good quality stuff – that you lose good people in the noise. You’ve had this experience – someone’s name will pop up in your Facebook birthday reminders or a passing mention in Twitter and you’ll kick yourself for forgetting that person existed…

    … and in the meantime, you’ve lost the benefit of whatever they were sharing during that period. Sure, you can always catch up, but if they’re really valuable, then your competitors have been reading and taking advantage of their ideas the whole time, putting you behind the curve.

    If someone really impresses, subscribe to their blog. Take that extra 15-30 seconds to copy and paste to Google Reader. Keep them on your mental radar screen so that you can continue to benefit from their shared knowledge.


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