Category: Awakening

  • You Ask, I Answer: Why Representation Matters?

    You Ask, I Answer: Why Representation Matters?

    In a recent episode, Rene asks an important non-marketing question about representation. Christopher Penn explains that representation is about ensuring that diverse groups of people are given a spotlight, particularly in industries like entertainment. The importance of representation lies in the fact that humans mimic what they see and when they see someone who looks like them in a position of power, it sends an implicit message that they too can achieve success. Representation also unlocks human potential and can reveal undiscovered talent. In industries where people do not see themselves represented, they may feel excluded and not even try. Neuroscience and psychology have proven that representation is how people make decisions. Therefore, it is essential to have diverse representation in every field to create a world where everyone has the opportunity to fulfill their potential. Watch the video for more insights.

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    You Ask, I Answer: Why Representation Matters?

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    In today’s episode, Rene asks a non marketing question.

    Rene asks, What is the deal with representation? I keep seeing it all over the place.

    What is it? And why should I care about it? Okay.

    This is an important question.

    representation, particularly within a context of, well, really any industry, but especially things like an entertainment representation is all about making sure that, that the people who are portrayed in entertainment are really just given the spotlight at all, are a diverse, a diverse group of people.

    So suppose you go to a marketing conference, and you notice that every single speaker on stage is a middle aged male, right? That sort of sends a message to the audience that the people who are held in high esteem is that group of people representation says, let’s find a good mix of people, people who are gay people who are straight people who are black people, who are white people who are Christian people who are Muslim people who are Buddhist people who are short people who are tall, etc.

    You get the idea.

    It’s it’s about creating diversity so that more people are represented.

    Okay, cool.

    Again, why does this matter? Well, here’s the thing.

    We, as as animals mimic what we see, right, we are attuned to what we see.

    When we see someone who looks like us in a position of power, that is an implicit message that people who are like us, we can achieve that, whatever that is, right? Think about it, when a black girl sees Oprah Winfrey, she sees someone who’s an enormous ly successful business person, entertainer and things like that.

    And doesn’t just notice that, you know, Oprah looks like her.

    But it says, I could be that I could be that person.

    Oprah did it.

    There’s, there’s clearly a path for me to do that.

    Maybe I can do that too.

    When a gay boy, see someone like Tim Cook, who’s who’s openly gay, running one of the largest corporations on Earth, and doing a decent job of it says, my sexuality is not an obstacle to success, right, there is a path to a leadership position where I could be running a fortune 10 company, right? When a trans girl sees Nicole Maines, landing big parts on films and TV shows, that says to that person, I could do the same thing i The possibility exists.

    And this is why representation matters.

    We care about getting the most out of people, we care about Unlocking Potential in every field, entertainment, banking, science, mathematics, we want logically and rationally, we want the very best people possible.

    In the field.

    If we are business owners, we want the very, very best people we can hire on staff.

    And if we have a group of people who are shut out, because they don’t see themselves, so they don’t even try.

    In that group of people, we could very well have some undiscovered talent that could have been really useful, right? If someone like me, who’s of Korean heritage, looks at an industry and I don’t see anybody who’s Korean, you know, in any kind of position of power, that kind of tells me that the industry is not the right place for me.

    Right? If I went to a marketing conference, I did not see other people of Korean descent on stage or how I’d settle for any East Asian descent.

    Again, I would say, Wow, this conference really isn’t for me, at this conference is not an event that I’m going to get anything out even if that’s not true.

    Because I don’t see people like me.

    Now, is this.

    Is this true? Or is this sort of just wishy washy touchy feely stuff? No, it actually is true.

    This is how people make decisions.

    neuroscience and psychology have proven this a long time ago, that representation is how people make decisions.

    Right? It’s one of the reasons why you have popular people endorsing things right it’s part of a marketing strategy for influencers endorsing things because they attract a like crowd.

    It’s one of the reasons why you see you know, companies taking certain socials.

    stands because they know that that social stand is going to be supported by the people that are going to spend the most money with them.

    Right? That’s that’s literally it.

    This is really important, particularly in entertainment, right 1000s 1000s Of Black girls had written to Nichelle Nichols, in the decades after Star Trek aired to say how inspired they were to pursue a career in science despite, you know, crazy amounts of bias and discrimination in the field because they saw Lieutenant Uhura on the bridge of the USS Enterprise as a peer as an officer, as a member of the crew and not a maid or a servant.

    Right 1000s of lesbians have written to Alyson Hannigan over the decades after her portrayal of Willow, on on Buffy on the TPCC in a healthy not objectified relationship.

    When Willow and Tara was the the relationship that helped those women accept themselves and come out despite a culture that really didn’t accept them.

    Right, every time.

    Every time we opened the door to someone else’s race, orientation, background, etc, we create a world that’s better, we create a world where people can fulfill their, their potential, right, more artists, more scientists, more thinkers, we advance humanity as a whole.

    And we are at a turning point right now in our civilization as a species as a species on this planet.

    And we desperately need the very best talent, we can find the best people to solve the world’s biggest problems, you know, like climate change in the world, just sort of going off off the, off the rails.

    If today a girl sees a scientist character on screen, who happens to be a lesbian, that might or inspire her to be that to become that and that girl tomorrow might act solve carbon sequestration, which we need.

    For our continued survival as a species on this planet, we cannot afford to close the doors to human potential, now more than ever.

    So this is why representation matters.

    It isn’t just to make some a one group of people feel better it is to tell everyone regardless of your background, that the door is open.

    If you’ve got talent, you got potential The door is open.

    But each group of people needs to see one of their members represented in that conversation, whether it is on stage at a conference, whether it is in a newspaper, whether it is on social media, whether it is in a TV series, any place that where attention goes, representation has to flow there so that people see themselves, see the possibilities, and know that the doors open for them to play their part to live up to their potential as human beings.

    So good question.

    Tough question.

    Very tough question.

    Tougher hardest, tougher, more to actually do it, but worthwhile if we do.

    Thanks for asking.

    Talk to you next time.

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  • Mind Readings: Be Ruthlessly Efficient With Your Time

    Mind Readings: Be Ruthlessly Efficient With Your Time

    In today’s episode, we talked about being more efficient and ruthlessly efficient with your time. We discussed setting time boundaries and enforcing them, making use of small time slices throughout the day, and reducing the time spent on activities that don’t help you reach your goals. Lastly, we recommended being assertive with those who waste your time by setting clear boundaries and sticking to them.

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    In today’s episode, let’s talk about being more efficient, being ruthlessly efficient with your time. Before the holidays, I was in a meeting and set very clear boundaries; it was a 25 minute meeting. And the folks I was having the meeting with started off with a lot of fluff, some small talk, and then said, “Okay, now let’s do some introductions.” And I was sitting there going, “We have 25 minutes and you’re going to have nine people introduce themselves, you’re going to chew up at least five minutes of this call.” And sure enough, after all the fluff, by the time we actually got down to business, there were 15 minutes left in a 25 minute call. And so the folks who were on this call did not accomplish what they set out to do with the call, they ran out of time. And I know they were disappointed; you could see it on their faces, because this was a Zoom call. And it got me thinking about the things that you can do to make the most of the time that you have, not just in a meeting, but in general, and ways to implement that.

    So, number one, set time boundaries and enforce them. I love calendar appointments for meetings, and I will let people know at the top of the call that I have a hard stop at a certain time. And I stick to it; stick to it and say, “Okay, we’re out of time; I’ll let’s let’s reconvene again if we need to have another meeting, we can.” But after the first couple of calls, where somebody gets cut off in the middle of the call because they’re rambling, they get the message pretty quickly: “Oh, I need to tighten up if I want to get done what I want to get done.” So be really isn’t not unforgiving, but very assertive with your time boundaries; your time is valuable. No amount of money could ever buy time.

    Second, have a to-do list for tasks that take relatively little time; five to fifteen minutes. And throughout your day, when you have little time slices, allow that list and knock stuff off of that list. I used to have this one coworker who drove me up a wall. They were who would have like 25 minutes between meetings, I would just throw their hands up and say, “Oh, I can’t get anything done. I don’t have enough time.” Like, I’m 25 minutes, you can get a lot done in 25 minutes, as long as you’re prepared, as long as you know what is on your plate that you could get done and get it done. There’s always stuff to be done. And not all of it takes deep work. Some things absolutely take deep work, which is when you spend an hour, two hours, three hours, block off that time so that I’m not doing anything else, but focusing in on this sort of thing.

    The third thing and this is one that comes from people asking the question, “How do you do as much as you do? How do you create as much as you create?” is you reduce time usage for stuff that doesn’t move your goals ahead. It’s not to say that you just stop being unproductive, right? You absolutely should have downtime, rest time, time to just watch silly reruns whatever, because that mental breaks are important and necessary for your mental health, your productivity, it needs that. But it has to be taken in belts, it has to be budgeted, kind of like anything. Time is a limited resource and you budget it like a limited resource just like money. It is astonishing to me how many people and organizations will will budget down to the penny for for every little thing and they won’t budget their time at all. They will not budget time, even a little bit. They’ll say, “Oh yeah, we’ve got to do some of this marketing stuff. You’ve got to do some email marketing and stuff.” And then they’ll obsess about their pay-per-click budget. It’s like, “Well, you probably should budget your time more rigorously.” And you’ll find that you’ll have more time to do more stuff and you may not necessarily need to then spend as much money as you do on your pay-per-click budget because you’ve recovered that productivity and time.

    So, I would summarize this by saying you need to be efficient with your time in some cases ruthlessly efficient. Though the people who are going to waste your time, box them in; either there are certain people you have to deal with them. Maybe it’s a boss or a colleague, or a family member or a client or whoever. And you know that dealing with them is not the best use of your time. Box them in, say, “Hey, love to talk, have 25 minutes.” And then at the end when they’re still going on say, “I’ve got another thing. It’s been great talking to you; bye.” As with everything else, people learn pretty quickly, subconsciously or consciously people learn pretty quickly when you stand up for your boundaries and say that you have 25 minutes, and there’s a hard stop at the end.

    So, I’d encourage you to do the same. Thanks for tuning in. I’ll talk to you soon. If you’d like this video, go ahead and hit that subscribe button.


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  • My Three Words for 2023

    My Three Words for 2023

    One of my favorite exercises that I’ve performed every year since he first introduced it is Chris Brogan’s Three Words. Rather than create resolutions which are difficult to keep, the three words exercise puts together three words that form your mantra for the coming year. My twist on it is to restrict it to just verbs, because verbs are actions to take. I like the three words as an easy way to remind myself of what I’m supposed to be doing, if I find that my mind and focus have wandered.

    For example, in 2022, my three words were invest, research, and cultivate. By making them verbs, I could ask myself for any given decision if what I was choosing would accelerate my progress towards a goal, encourage me to create something, or help me experience something more deeply.

    That said, that’s unique to me only, and that restriction doesn’t apply to anyone else. You could choose, for example, end state goals as your words, like wealth or opportunity or friendship. Do whatever will help you move forward on your big goals.

    How did I do in 2022 with these words?

    Invest. This one went well. I invested, and not just financially. I invested time into things that mattered, relationships that moved ahead my personal life and professional life.

    Research. This went exceedingly well. 2022 was a bounty of a year when it came to learning new things, researching stuff, exploring new frontiers. From generative AI to new parts of the R programming language to conducting 50+ weeks of original data and research, 2022 was bursting at the seams in research.

    Cultivate. This was all about habits, cultivating habits to sustain efforts over the long term. I ran over 300 kilometers in 2022 (which is not bad for someone who hadn’t been a runner before the pandemic), my longest annual distance yet.

    Compared to 2021, 2022 was personally a great year (even if the macro pictures was a big bucket of WTF).

    So, with that retrospective, what are my three words for 2023?

    Release. There’s a ton of stuff that’s just laying around, personally and professionally. Resources that I haven’t done anything with, stuff I’ve made, things I’ve accumulated. This year, it’s all about releasing it in one way or another. For some things, that means pushing them out of the nest, shipping stuff; for other things, it’s about giving them away or just letting them go, knowing that their time has come.

    Revoke. There are people, concepts, ideas, and things in my head, in my life that don’t need to be there. Part of this year is revoking their access, cutting ties, removing permission for them to be there. It’s not just passively letting them go, but actively revoking their privileges. The block button? It’s going to get a lot of use. One of my favorite singers, Jewel, has this great line from “A Life Uncommon”: no longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from. That’s the motto of Revoke.

    Renew. This year, so much is going to change. So much has to change. Professionally, the world of marketing data and analytics will go through conniptions with major, enforced changes like Google Analytics 4. Personally, the efforts I’ve made the last 3 years for my health need to continue, to accelerate, so I will renew those efforts (already clocked my first 5K for the year on day 1!). Friendships, relationships, habits – many things that went well in 2022 need to keep going, need to get renewed. Many old things from years past need to be refreshed, given new life again because they work and it’s time to upcycle them to something new.

    Remember, the three words, should you choose to do this exercise, are guideposts, not iron-clad rules. Things happen – like global pandemics. Even small scale things, on the order of us as individuals, can make the best-laid plans go totally off the rails. So if and when life throws you a curveball, don’t hesitate to change your focus either.

    Whatever and however you choose to celebrate the turning of a page in time, I hope your 2023 is an improvement over 2022.


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  • Mind Readings: Shipping Stuff to a Warzone

    Mind Readings: Shipping Stuff to a Warzone

    In this episode, I talked about how I sent a power bank to a friend in Kyiv, Ukraine, over the holidays. I used Nova Poshta to get the package to her and we used Amazon Deutschland as the ecommerce system. The point of this story is twofold: logistically, it is possible to send packages to people in Ukraine, even in war zones; and the broader lesson is that you can’t help everybody, but you can help somebody, and that effort can make the world a better place.

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    In this episode, let’s talk about doing something a little bit different. Shipping a package to a war zone, though, over the holidays, between Thanksgiving and Christmas, a friend of mine, a data scientist in Kyiv, Ukraine, was talking about how she didn’t have electricity a good amount of the time. Now, there’s not a whole lot that we individually can do for everyone. But in this instance, there was something I could do for one person—power banks, power generation stations, like the Ecoflo, Jackery, Anker, and Power Station. These are all large batteries, essentially, that you can take, charge them up, and then use them. And if you were to send one of these to somebody who didn’t have reliable access to electricity, but had access to it in some fashion, it would be a pretty big help. So what we coordinated on was, “What if I were to try and send one of these things?” Knowing that my colleague could use this to essentially let her do her job, right, because, as with all of our technology, we all require electricity, and someone who’s doing machine learning and AI and data science kind of needs a working laptop with electricity.

    So it turns out that Ukraine’s Postal Service, Nova Poshta, has drops in most major nations. You go to their website, NPShopping.com, and if you can navigate it—which is entirely in Ukrainian—if you can navigate it, you can sign up for a mailbox. And what they will do is, their shipping depots, you can send stuff—mail stuff—to their shipping depot in whatever country you’re in with the nearest country. And then, with enough time and logistics, they will manage to get your package to the intended recipient somewhere in Ukraine. There are obviously places within Ukraine itself where you’re not shipping anything, like Crimea, for example. You’re probably not shipping stuff there right now. But in the major cities that are not under direct siege, yeah, you can send stuff there.

    So I coordinated with my friend and went to Amazon—but not Amazon US because Amazon US, even though Nova Poshta has shipping depots in the United States, all of our equipment in the USA is on USA electrical standards, which doesn’t do you a bit of good outside of North America, essentially. The voltages are different. The plugs are different, like have you ever seen a travel adapter that says “EU?” It’s a two-prong thing and, you know, the US has sort of a three-prong thing going on. So we went to Amazon Deutschland, Amazon Germany, and found the same station there, and shipped it from the Amazon Germany warehouse to the Nova Porsche depot in Germany—I forget where in Germany it is. And then they said that, from there on to Ukraine, it worked. You know, I was watching it very carefully. One of my neighbors here in the USA is from Cherkasy, so she’s Ukrainian and can help translate and tell me what was going on. But it worked. We got a 260-watt-hour, essentially battery system to my colleague in Kyiv. And now she posted on Instagram that she can get her job done and she can get her work done, which obviously provides income and all those things.

    The point of this story is twofold. One, it is possible to do these things right. If you know people who are in Ukraine—or this process can be applied to many different countries—but in particular for Ukraine, if you know people in Ukraine and you want to send them stuff, it turns out you can—you just have to set up an account with Nova Costa and then buy the thing on the nearest ecommerce system and then ship it to the drop point. So logistically, that’s a takeaway, if you are looking to help. This is one avenue if you know somebody to send it to; if you don’t know who to send it to, then look to the major charities. Go to United 24—it’s United24.gov.ua—and just donate money there. It’s probably a much better use of your resources. But if you know somebody who needs something and it can be shipped from an ecommerce system like Amazon or eBay or whatever, this is a way to do it. It works.

    The second, and broader, lesson is you can’t help everybody. You can’t save the world, right? Even the richest people can’t save the world. But you absolutely can help somebody. And that’s a lesson that I think we all need to take to heart. You can’t help everybody, but you can help somebody. So if it is within your power to help one person, just that effort makes the world a better place. It is. If you had billions of dollars, you would still be struggling to fix the problem entirely. But you absolutely could help a person, a family, or a village, depending on the level of resources you have available to you. So let that be something that you can take to heart and that you can apply in your life. Find somebody to help and see what the world looks like when you’re done. And again, it doesn’t have to be in a far-off nation. It could be somebody in your town, your neighborhood, your city. There are no shortage of people who need help, and you can help one person. And if you do that, we all do that, we make the world a better place.

    Thanks for tuning in. Talk to you soon. If you liked this video, go ahead and hit that subscribe button.


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  • Almost Timely News, January 1, 2023: New Year’s Fire Ceremony for Goal Setting

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    New Year’s Fire Ceremony for Goal Setting

    Years and years ago, I received permission from one of my teachers, Stephen K. Hayes, to perform a specific meditation ritual around the new year to help set goals and achieve them. For years, I did this at my house, inviting a select group of friends to participate, and I was looking back at some of the feedback recently from ceremonies past. Many folks said it made a difference, so I figured it might be time to share it a little more broadly.

    This year, we all know the world is going to be more contentious, more challenging, more adverse in many ways. Yet as with everything, there are also more opportunities, more chances, more fleeting moments we could seize towards our goals. To make the most of what opportunities we have, we need to be prepared, mentally ready to act when it’s our shot.

    We tend to succeed when we’re clear about our goals and we’ve got a plan for tackling those goals that we can execute on every day, every week, every month, every year. We tend to be less successful when we don’t have those things. This fire ceremony, a tradition in the martial art I practice, is one technique for helping you achieve those goals.

    Disclosures and Disclaimers

    This version of the fire ceremony is intentionally scaled down for you and me as individuals or maybe just a few close friends. If you want the full, traditional experience, you need to seek out one of the teachers in my martial arts tradition; I learned this from Stephen K. Hayes, and he’s the person I’d reach out to if you want to experience the whole ceremony in all its detail.

    If you plan to do this with others, be very selective about who you participate with. Invite people who have positive intentions and have been and are generally committed to your success without reservations or conditions. For the purposes of the ceremony itself, avoid inviting people who are nervous talkers, who cannot abide a few moments of silence without filling the air. Distraction is the enemy of focus, and this is something you want to be focused for.

    Follow Along

    The audio and video for this ceremony are linked above. Feel free to play them as you do this so that you can pause at each step as needed.

    Choosing a Goal

    A few things before we begin. First, you have to DO this. You have to participate. You can’t just watch this video or read this newsletter and expect results, any more than you can watch a video about working out and achieve your fitness goals, or read a recipe and have food to eat. You have to do the work, follow along, and perform the exercises.

    Second, your goal should not come at someone else’s expense. It’s fine to want a goal like having a million bucks. It’s not fine to have a goal of taking a million bucks from X person. Call it what you want, divine intervention, karma, the universal scales of justice – a goal at someone else’s expense tends not to work out.

    Third, your goal should be clear and specific. Make a million bucks is good, make a million bucks without sacrificing your health or family relationships is better. Lose weight is good, lose 10 kilograms is better, lose 10 kilograms while maintaining a food budget of X euros is very specific and good. Clarity and specificity make achieving goals easier.

    You can have more than one goal, but for the purposes of this exercise, start with one goal. You can always do it again with a different goal.

    If you’re performing this with others, it tends to work better if you do NOT share your goal during the ceremony. There will be ample time in the days and weeks ahead to collaborate with others and build shared accountability.

    The Setup

    Let’s talk about the setup next. To perform this version of the fire ceremony, you should be in a safe space or place where you can literally light things on fire. This can be outside in a fire pit, in a gas grill, or even in the smoking area of wherever you live, where there are ashtrays and things that aren’t flammable nearby. Unless you’ve got access to a fireplace, you probably shouldn’t do this indoors.

    You’ll need a source of fire that can be sustained for a few minutes. A candle will do, as will a grill, a fireplace, etc. I’d say to start, a candle is just fine, but feel free to use whatever works best for your circumstances.

    You’ll need some scissors and a few sheets of plain paper, as well as something to write on.

    You’ll want to have fire resistant gloves, tongs, chopsticks, or anything that can hold a piece of paper on fire safely if you’re using a candle. If you’re using a fireplace, fire pit, or grill, then you just need the ability to safely place pieces of paper in a fire.

    For safety’s sake, please have some kind of fire extinguishing equipment handy. Again, make sure you’re doing this in a safe space!

    Preparing the Materials

    Before you start lighting things on fire, take the sheets of paper and cut them into four sets of shapes.

    • One long rectangle
    • Five circles
    • Five squares
    • Ten octagons or leaves, your choice depending on how good you are at cutting shapes out of paper

      They should be big enough to write at least a complete sentence on. I find that shapes about 2-3 inches/5-7 cm work best.

    You’ll also need one regular sheet of paper to take some notes on.

    The Ceremony Process

    Let’s get started.

    1. Clear the space and get ready. Take care of any biological needs so you can give your full focus to the ceremony. Tradition suggests removing anything metal that you’re wearing; that’s still good advice. For sure, remove anything that will distract you like your phone, smart watch, etc. And put them all in silent mode.
  • On the long rectangle piece of paper, write down your goal. We put our goal in writing so that we’re absolutely clear about what we want to bring about in the world. A major reason we don’t accomplish our goals in life is we’re never clear about them. By writing it down, we give ourselves clarity. Be sure to note this on the note-taking sheet of paper as well.
  • Write your name and the year. If you’re doing this at the beginning of a year, putting the year ahead works great. If you want to do this on a more personal occasion like a birthday or anniversary, put that date instead. We put our name on our goal as a tangible reminder of who’s responsible for our goal. We might or might not get help from others in achieving our goal, but the responsibility is ours alone. We put a date of some kind on our goal as a reminder that a goal without a deadline is just a wish.

  • On a few of the stop signs, write down 3-5 external factors or conditions that could get in the way of achieving your goal. What external things could work to prevent you from succeeding? After you jot these down, put them into the flame so that the world knows what you’re looking out for.

  • On a few of the circles, write down 3-5 external factors you will need to succeed. What people or situations will you have to change, move, or work with to make your goal a reality? After you jot these down, put them into the flame so that the world knows what you might be asking of it.

  • On the remaining stop signs, write down 3-5 internal factors or conditions that could get in the way of achieving your goal. What are the specific internal tendencies, habits, and inhibitors that could work to prevent you from succeeding at your goal? After you jot these down, put them into the flame so that the world knows what you’re committed to overcoming.

  • On a few of the squares, write down 3-5 internal factors you will need to succeed. What ideas, feelings, beliefs, or habits will you have to develop, face up to, or give up to create the internal conditions you need to achieve your goal? After you jot these down, put them into the flame so that the world knows what you’re committed to becoming.

  • Make brief notes of the things you’ve just put into the flame – the external factors that would inhibit your goal, the external factors that would advance your goal, the internal factors that would inhibit your goal, and the internal factors that would advance your goal.

  • Finally, take the rectangle with your name, date, and goal on it and put it into the flame. As you do this, as you watch the fire spring to life, realize you are telling the world that your goal is real, that you’re bringing it to life, and that you’re announcing your commitment to take immediate action towards your goal. Ask the world to remind you to take action towards your goal every single day, steps of any size that move you closer to your goal. Remember that an average plan vigorously executed beats a beautiful plan you never take action on. Let the fire and flame be a signal to everyone that this goal is happening.

  • Once the paper has burned up, carefully snuff out the fire and clean up. Some people prefer to gather the ashes and save them in a little container, or smudge themselves with the ashes as a tangible reminder of what they’ve committed to. Whatever you do, take your note-taking sheet of paper as the start of your plan, your blueprint to succeeding at your goal, get started, and keep going. The dividing line between success and failure often isn’t resources or intelligence, but perseverance.

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  • Mind Readings: Collectivist and Individualist Mindsets

    Mind Readings: Collectivist and Individualist Mindsets

    • Different nations and communities have had varying levels of success in fighting COVID due to different mindsets
    • A collectivist mindset is needed to solve a collectivist problem
    • An individualist mindset is needed to solve an individualist problem
    • The Motion Picture Association of America is an example of a collectivist mindset
    • Apple is an example of an individualist mindset
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    In today’s episode, let’s talk about two different kinds of mindsets.

    When we look at the history of what has been successful in the pandemic, in terms of fighting COVID off different nations different communities have had different levels of success.

    Some communities have had a fairly large success at it, and some communities have not.

    What’s the difference? Generally speaking, when you look across those places, which have done a really good job, you see more of a balance between collectivist and individualist mindsets than you do in places where an individualist mindset predominates.

    So when you look at a scale of, for example, different nations, the United States of America is supremely unusual in the level of individualism as an overall mindset compared to almost every other nation on the planet.

    And then there are the polar opposites communities where a collectivist mindset is very rigidly in place.

    The People’s Republic of China has an extremely strong collectivist mindset fostered by the the authoritarian government there.

    And these two mindsets, and it’s a spectrum, it’s not one or the other.

    These two mindsets create different results and are useful for different kinds of problems.

    You want an individualist mindset when you are trying to foster things like innovation and entrepreneurship, where someone has that sort of rugged individuality that allows them to defy convention allows them to take greater risks than they normally would.

    And sort of just go it alone.

    The flipside is you also end up with a lot of people who don’t do all that well, because that individual is mindset taken too far.

    Means they don’t do things like ask for help.

    You want collectivist mindsets when you have a problem that requires collective action.

    Right? So a public health crisis, you want collective action, you want everyone to do their part to solve a problem that affects everyone, and not rely on individual solutions.

    The challenge that we’ve seen in countries that didn’t do as well with with the COVID pandemic, is that individualist mindsets? They don’t work against a collectivist problem.

    The way a virus works is inherently collectivist, because they’re not really they’re barely alive, they’re not, you know, some scientists don’t even think that they’re alive.

    And they’re relatively non discriminatory, they just do their thing and they spread, they do not care about point of view, they don’t care about opinion, they don’t care about belief, they care about nothing, they just do their thing.

    And so, by their very nature to create a collectivist problem, everybody has to sort of work together to solve this particular problem.

    If you’re facing a collectivist problem, then you need to have enough of a a strain of collectivism in your population to solve for that problem.

    In a business example, suppose an entire industry is in trouble.

    Right? An entire industry is is struggling to to prosper.

    In an individualist mindset, each company would be you know every man for himself.

    Let’s let’s sabotage each other on the way down because we want to be the the first off the cliff I guess.

    Whereas a collectivist mindset would be okay, let’s band together so that we can solve this problem and not not suffer the consequences.

    A really good example of this is the Motion Picture Association of America.

    This is a trade organization that was created by the major movie production houses because the government was threatening censorship, saying hey, you guys aren’t regulating the content that’s going into your motion pictures? We think there should be some kind of standards.

    And so we’re going to impose it and so the Motion Picture Association of America was founded by movie studios as a collectivist action to say you know what, we’d rather regulate ourselves than have politicians be regulating us.

    And as a result, we have a system that is still in place today and works reasonably well.

    Right you there are some movies that you know, the rating system says hey, take your kids to the movie other movies where the rating system says no responsible parents should be allowing their their are a minor child to see this movie under any condition.

    And that’s an example of a collectivist mindset that works really well.

    Conversely, if you’re in an industry that is stuck, that is stagnant, everyone’s doing the doing the best practices and there’s no innovation.

    That’s when an individualist mindset is needed.

    When your organization your company can say, You know what, collectively, we’re not making any progress here.

    Maybe we need to break away from the pack and do something different.

    And we need to do something that is contrary to the way everyone is going.

    You see this with companies like Apple, right? Apple? Apple is founded on design, right? That is That is their forte, they don’t really innovate, right? Apple was not the first graphical user interface that belongs to Hewlett Packard.

    Apple was not the first consumer computer that belongs to IBM.

    Apple was not the first smartphone maker.

    Well, there were there were smartphones, long before Apple’s iPhone, they were just not particularly very good, right.

    Things like the BlackBerry and stuff, these are the they existed, they had dominant market share.

    Apple was not the first tablet producer, Apple was not the first smartwatch producer.

    But their individualist streak, the anti collectivist streak is around design.

    And they say let’s do things in a in a totally different way and invest heavily in design.

    So that we were not going to be the first to market let’s be the best to market and do things in a way that is different than everybody else is doing it different operating system not interoperable different standards, all these different things that in a purely collectivist environment would kind of do mycompany.

    But because the in this example, they take an individualist mindset, they they do reasonably well in their trillion dollar company and change.

    So the question and the thing to think about here is, what situations are you facing that our collective action solutions? And what things are individual action solutions? In your own career in your own company and your own team? Which side of the spectrum Do you lean more towards? Do you lean more towards collective action and building consensus? Do you lean more towards the that sort of going rogue mindset, there isn’t a right or wrong point of view, there isn’t one that’s better than the other, it’s all situational.

    But knowing which way you tend to lean and knowing how your your team and your company behaves, will let you be more clear minded and clear eyed about your prospects for success.

    When you’re facing different kinds of problems.

    If you are a collectivist company, and you’re facing a challenge that needs an individual’s mindset, you’re gonna have a hard time and the vice and vice versa.

    The reverse is also true.

    If you are an individuals company that requires participation in a collective solution, you’re gonna have a hard time.

    So give that some thought.

    How do you apply this spectrum? Where do you fit on this spectrum? And are the problems you’re facing now? leaning more towards one side? And if so, are you equipped to deal with that in terms of your own mindset? Thanks for tuning in.

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  • Almost Timely News, November 27, 2022: Gratitude, Thanks, and Contrast

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    A little something different this week for the USA Thanksgiving holiday weekend. While everyone else is out binge shopping or dealing with turkey hangovers, let’s talk about gratitude and giving thanks. I’m sure you’ve waded through the emails from every company you’ve ever had contact with, and the piles of insincere thanks from them. I’ll start by being a curmudgeon: corporations cannot give thanks.

    What? How can I say that? It’s simple. Corporations cannot give thanks any more than robots can, because gratitude is an emotion, and emotions are the domain of the living. Your dog has emotions. Your fish has emotions. You have emotions. But a corporation isn’t a living entity. Anything without a central nervous system cannot have emotions, and corporations don’t have those.

    Gratitude, in our context as marketers and business folks, can only come from other living beings. So your company’s CEO can express gratitude, but the institution cannot, not in a real, meaningful way. You, as a marketer, can be thankful. I am personally thankful to you, that you’re paying even the slightest bit of attention to me at all.

    Okay, now that we’ve gotten the curmudgeonly part out of the way, let’s talk about gratitude some more. For years, I had trouble with the concept of gratitude. It was too abstract. Be thankful and grateful for what you have? Sure, that makes sense. But how do you bring that to life? Writing it down in a journal? Talking about it with friends? Those activities felt… performative. They felt like they were being done to showcase or highlight what I had, and didn’t feel like thankfulness or gratitude.

    When I think about thankfulness, about gratitude, I think about feeling relieved. Someone does something truly nice for you – how do you feel? If it’s something I needed help with, something I wanted respite from, I feel relief. Whew. Thank goodness someone helped me. Stranded on the side of the road and someone helps me change a tire? Relief. Thanks. Gratitude. Someone gives you a gift that’s heartfelt? Joy. Eagerness. Wow, look at this – this actually means something. When you give your dog a treat? Relief. Happiness. Eagerness. Maybe a little greed – hey, got any more of that?

    But the emotions are real, acute, heartfelt. You FEEL something in that thanks, in that gratitude.

    Thinking abstractly about your life and being grateful? I don’t know about you, but that exercise never made me FEEL anything. It was like reviewing lines in a spreadsheet.

    So here’s the hack that I found, the thing that makes me feel something. I think about the contrast. I think about whatever aspect of my life, and I think about the time when I didn’t have that, or when I nearly lost it.

    For example, I spent the last week caring for my elderly parents who were COVID positive. Watching how hard the disease hit them, sapping them of their strength and energy, sending my father to the hospital for a few days (he’s almost fully recovered, thankfully) – that highlights in sharp contrast my own health. I am thankful and grateful for my health because I see a living, sharp example of what the absence of health looks like, feels like in people I care about.

    When I think about prosperity, I think of the time four short years ago when I didn’t have any. When I started Trust Insights with Katie, I cashed out a healthy chunk of a retirement fund to pay the bills for the year, and I was living far below my means to make it through the year, to make ends meet without my family being heavily impacted. Those days are in the rear view mirror, but they are a sharp contrast to today, when the company is doing much better, when I don’t HAVE to calculate how much to spend at the grocery store.

    When I think about friendships, I think of the friendships I’ve lost, the people along the way that I’ve parted ways with, amicably and not so amicably. I think about what went wrong, and how much I valued those friends, and I feel that sense of appreciation, of relief, that the friends I have today are still with me.

    When I think about even the basics, I think of my friend Ann. She lives in Kyiv, Ukraine, and for the last 3 days, she’s had no electricity at all. Russians bombed the power stations in her part of the city, and there’s no way to know when they’ll get electricity back. And it’s literally freezing there. That I have heat and light, and she doesn’t – gratitude even for the basics. (donate to Ukraine 🇺🇦 through United24 if you’d like to help)

    Gratitude requires contrast, requires the opposite of what you have so that you understand its value and importance. When you have contrast, you feel so much more than a rote recitation of the things that are present in your life because you know, remember, or feel what their absence is like.

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  • Mind Readings: You Become the Company You Keep

    Mind Readings: You Become the Company You Keep

    If you want to improve your life, listen to people who will help you achieve the success you want. You don’t necessarily have to cut toxic people out of your life, but you can choose to listen to different, more helpful voices.

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    A man is known by the company he keeps.

    This is, of course, from ESOP of Aesop’s Fables 2500 years ago.

    And a whole bunch of motivational speakers and gurus and stuff have picked up various versions of this over the years, and put their own spin on it.

    The one that you’ll hear most often these days is something from you hear a lot from the sort of the tech, bro crowd, you become the average of the five people you hang out with the most right, the five people you surround yourself with the most.

    And the advice that people give frequently is, if you want to be more successful, hanging out with more successful people, if you want to be happy, you’re hanging out with happier people.

    And there is some truth to that.

    Certainly, if you you know, financial success is something that’s important to you.

    By default, if you’re hanging out with more successful people who financially you will probably see and hear things from them that would give you ideas, or practices or processes that you could use in your own life to to improve your your financial standing, you know, you’re hanging out at the bar.

    And your friends get to a discussion about cash flow analysis, and how positive cash flow is everything.

    If your your cash flow is positive, then you’re on your way to wealth, if your cash flow is negative, doesn’t how much money you have, you will eventually lose it all because that’s the way cash flow works.

    However, that advice that you become the, the average of the five people you hang out with most is often accompanied by very, very Pat, almost casual advice, that can be very difficult and disheartening for people and that advice is, well, you know, if you’re, if you’re not hanging out with successful people, get rid of them, get them out of your life, you know, if you’re hanging on negative people, get them out of your life, you know, cut those people out of your life.

    And, again, there is truth to that, if you are have friends who are very toxic people, it probably wouldn’t be a bad idea to spend less time with those folks.

    However, and this is the challenge with this advice.

    Not everyone’s circumstances allow them to make those dramatic changes, at least not quickly, particularly if the person or people that you have in mind that are creating challenges for you are people that you actually care about, you know, a parent, a child, a sibling, a dear friend from from years past, to just run with that advice blindly say, Yeah, you’re out of my life you’re out of here, is not necessarily all that practical.

    So here’s a slightly different spin.

    Instead of focusing on the five people you hang out with the most right, and the company that you keep, think about who you listen to most who are the five people you listen to the most.

    And again, if those five people are people that are putting a lot of less helpful stuff in your head, listen to different people.

    And I don’t mean, you know, remove them from your life.

    I mean, this lovely device here contains the voices of millions, if not billions, of people.

    on Twitch on YouTube, on the podcast app of your choice, there is so much good free content from people that probably you’d like to emulate probably whose success you would like to have for yourself, whatever success means whether it’s better relationships, more money, more free time, better health, you name it, whatever success means there’s voices on this device that will help reprogram your head a little bit.

    And give you more ideas give you a different way of looking at things.

    So instead of worrying about the five people you hang out with most, think about the five people you listen to the most.

    And the majority of time that you spend listening to folks, is folks who are not helping you achieve whatever success means for you.

    Open this thing up, find that person or those people on YouTube, then their podcasts and their blogs or whatever.

    And listen to them more.

    Right? Find a meditation teacher, if you’re stressed, find a yoga teacher if you’re not feeling flexible, find whoever and use this technology use those voices to start changing how you want your world to work.

    And you can do this without again having to make dramatic changes and you’re telling your mom you’re out of here ever you’re useless.

    But listening to the people that will reprogram your head and put more and better materials in your head.

    And again, you don’t have to go hang out with them.

    You don’t have to buy their $599 course or whatever if they’ve got a message they’ve got have probably a ton of free content.

    Take your greatest hits the stuff that means the most to you.

    Download it, put it on your device, put in your earphones and listen, feed your brain with that stuff.

    And the change that you’re looking for will happen over time, it might not happiness as as fast as I can hear, you just got rid of all your relatives.

    But the change will start to happen as you get those different points of view as you get those different inputs into your head.

    So a person is known by the company that keeps to some degree, but a person becomes the company you listen to most.

    So if you want more of something in your life, listen to more of that in the on the channel of your choice that it’s out there, it’s waiting for you.

    Go and get it.

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  • Mind Readings: Beware Blanket Trust of Thought Leaders

    Mind Readings: Beware Blanket Trust of Thought Leaders

    Be careful when extending trust to thought leaders outside of their domain of expertise. Make sure they have earned that trust by being transparent about their sources and citing them when appropriate.

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    In today’s episode, let’s talk a little bit about trust.

    At this year’s MarketingProfs B2B forum, Ashley Faus from Atlassian was giving a talk about influencers and subject matter experts and thought leadership and how to know whether you’re a thought leader or not.

    And one of the characteristics of leadership that she talked about was authority.

    Authority in the sense of how much do people look to you as an authority? versus how much do people press you for your credibility, your credentials, and one of the things she said was, you are a thought leader, when people cite you, as a source.

    You are not a thought leader, when people require you to cite your sources, which I thought was a very handy compact, a for ism, a good way to benchmark your authority when people cite you.

    And they don’t require you to cite where you got your information.

    Yeah, you’re, you’re in origination of of ideas and origination of thought you are a thought leader.

    And I liked that definition a whole lot.

    However, there is a risk, there’s a danger to this.

    And that danger is the halo effect.

    What I mean by that is just because somebody trusts you, and sees you as an authority in one area, does not necessarily mean that the the same level of trust should be extended to you, across multiple domains of expertise, unless you actually have that domain expertise.

    And the same thing is true.

    For anyone else we consider a thought leader, we should be looking at those thought leaders and saying, What is your domain of expertise.

    And if if it’s true that that person is a thought leader, then when that person ventures out of their domain expertise, we should be cautious about extending them the same level of trust.

    Now there are aspects to a person’s personality, trustworthiness, honesty, openness, transparency, those probably are going across domains.

    So if a person is trustworthy and honest, and transparent in one domain, probably they’re going to be in other domains.

    So from a, I guess you’d call it a soft skills perspective that would carry over, but the domain expertise itself might not.

    Let me give you a very practical example, in January of 2020, I posted my first update about what the time was called NCOP 2019, which we later know, and now known as COVID-19.

    And I started saying, Hey, I think this is a thing I cited the authorities that I was reading because to me, I’m a marketer, I’m a data guy.

    I’m a scientist, but I’m not an epidemiologist.

    I am not a virologist, I am not an MD, I have no medical experience to speak of.

    And so from my own perspective, I’m like, Okay, I’m gonna cite my sources for everything a because misinformation and disinformation is so bad on the internet.

    And this was keep in mind the beginning of the pandemic.

    And be because I held myself accountable to say, I’m not going to to, you know, randomly and wildly speculate about things that are not my area of expertise.

    So I started publishing these updates and eventually turn them into a newsletter.

    And what was interesting was, a lot of people started citing me.

    And that makes me real nervous because I am not the authority.

    Like I said, I’m not a virologist, I did not go to medical school.

    In fact, I washed out of pre med in college, I didn’t make it through organic chemistry to I’m not qualified as a medical practitioner to be speaking about things without somebody saying, Hey, what are your sources on that? I can talk about it.

    But I should be and still do to this day, cite my sources, I still publish my pandemic newsletter, the newsletter that I wish would go away because I wish the pandemic would go away, but it hasn’t.

    So here we are.

    And every single newsletter, I still cite my sources because I know myself, but I am not an authority.

    Even if other people think I am, I know that I do not have the academic credentials.

    I do not have the lived experience, to be able to offer any kind of legitimate medical advice to anybody.

    I can tell you what I’m doing.

    And I can give you suggestions based on other people I’ve read, but I’m going to cite those as much as possible.

    And so this idea of trust is one that, again, we have to be careful with someone who is good at something in one domain outside of their domain, we should probably still be thinking about asking them for citations.

    Right? If you if you’re looking at my martial arts teacher, I would not hesitate to to cite him.

    Blanket citation.

    For his expertise.

    I don’t even have to ask him where he gets his information and stuff.

    I know, you know, he’s I know his teacher and his teacher.

    He’s an authority on the martial arts and our martial art and specific for something like fitness advice, little bit less.

    So for something like medical advice, I shouldn’t be asking that person for citations.

    Like, what legitimate paper? Did you read that in? What peer reviewed paper? Did you read that piece of advice and because there’s a lot of stuff that requires expertise that a person may not have.

    So the takeaway here is, give thought to who you consider to be a thought leader.

    in whatever field or industry you’re in, give thought to how much trust you extend to that person, how much you see them and his authority, how much you cite them.

    And then think about how much trust if any, you extend to that person outside of their domain of expertise, and whether that trust is earned.

    Again, that person may have multiple domains of expertise, in which case is totally safe to trust them in in their areas where they are experts.

    Otherwise, every now and again, it might not hurt to ask, where did you get that information from? Is there something that I can take a look at is just source material.

    I’m in the midst of as I record this, dealing with some hate speech on Twitter.

    And, again, I’m citing myself, I’m not going to make a claim to say here’s the raw data that I pulled because even though even in this area, even though data is my my area of expertise, hate speech and stuff is not.

    So I’m still going to cite my sources.

    And if you are creating content with the intent of being a thought leader, make sure that you hold yourself accountable, hold yourself accountable, know where you are an expert, know where you are not.

    And take the initiative proactively to cite your sources.

    For any situation where you think you might not have earned enough trust or where you want to build trust over time, by showing that yeah, you are dealing with accredited, validated, reviewed sources.

    That’s today’s thoughts.

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  • You Ask, I Answer: Being More Human in Marketing?

    You Ask, I Answer: Being More Human in Marketing?

    Katie asks, “What does being more human in marketing mean?”

    Being more human in marketing means using automation sensibly, empathizing with customers, and doing things that don’t scale.

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    In this episode, Katie asks, What does being more human and marketing mean? Or it’s a big question because being human is itself a big question.

    So there’s a couple of different ways to tackle this.

    But I want to start off with a caveat.

    B being human isn’t necessarily the aspirational goal that initially sounds like, it sounds great, it sounds very positive, until we remember that human beings are in general kind of a blight on on the planet, right? We are as a species, highly self destructive, we are destructive to a lot of other things, too, we’re incredibly self destructive.

    We’ve had something on the order of 28 days of warfare every day of peace.

    And we’re generally not very good at making decisions, particularly decisions over the long term, we tend to be fairly short sighted creatures, highly emotional, and problematic in a whole bunch of different ways.

    When we say be more human, I assume we’re trying to be more like, say, the Dalai Lama, and not so much like Hiler.

    But both of them are human.

    Right? Both of them are, we’re human beings.

    So we want to be very, very specific when we say let’s be more human and marketing.

    Now, to the actual substance of the question.

    Being more human, in marketing can mean a couple of different things.

    First, it means using automation sensibly, right? Using automation, just save time where it makes sense to save time, and word doesn’t impact our ability to interact with other humans in productive ways.

    So there’s a trend, understandably, right now, to automate everything possible, so that you have as little human interaction as possible, particularly in customer service, because humans are expensive, right? We cost a lot of money.

    Health care, benefits, salaries, machines, it costs substantially less.

    So that’s one aspect.

    But the part they think that really defines humanity, in business, and in the sense of being more human, is that it’s scale or the opposite of scale, human beings, don’t scale well.

    Right.

    But that lack of scaling is what communicates value to us, it communicates that this is, this is a valuable interaction, right? When you sit down to have dinner with somebody, you cannot be sitting down to have dinner with more than a certain number of people, right? There’s a limit to how many people you can have dinner with and have a productive conversation.

    Certainly, if you want to have a deep conversation, you’re probably only going to have dinner with what, three, four or five, maybe six people at the most after that it starts you get stuck in the loss side conversations.

    You want to have the most direct conversation, you have dinner with one other person.

    You can’t scale that.

    There’s no way to scale, they have dinner with a million people.

    You can email a million people, but you can’t have dinner with them.

    You can send a million emails, you cannot sit down and write handwrite a million letters even just wrote the person’s name, and hi, right.

    Hi, Chris.

    Next one letter.

    You’re not going to write out a million of these in any reasonable time fashion.

    But yet, we value a handwritten letter, we value a phone call made by an actual human, we value a video chat with an another person.

    One of the reasons why, you know, apps on our phones have so there’s so much messaging is because we’re messaging people, very specifically very intentionally, in a way that doesn’t scale, right? We might have a group chat with maybe 10 or 15 or 20 people, or probably about 1000 Probably not 10,000 people in a group chat.

    I hope not your phone would never stop buzzing, you’d never get any sleep.

    It is easy to send a blanket social media status, right you post a tweet or you post something on LinkedIn, it’s a lot harder to individually direct message every single person, even if you have 100 Just 100 friends that’s a lot of it’s 100 messages to send a time.

    Right.

    And yet that lack of scalability is what communicates value when you get a direct message from a friend that is just to you is like hey, this is pretty cool.

    This person is just reaching out to me being more human you know machines and AI can can generate things that sound good but, but lack the actual judgment behind the scenes.

    Humans do judgment machines generally don’t.

    And judgment means knowing what the rules are and when the rules don’t apply.

    On the scalability front, it’s easy to use all these really cool AI systems to to generate, you know, 1000 cool looking oil paint thinks it’s really time consuming to paint even just one by hand.

    So being more human means doing things that don’t scale.

    Right? It means showing that you care, showing someone you care by doing something that’s difficult or time consuming, something that you have to trade off, right? If I paint you a painting that has time I spent on the paint that I could have been doing something else, if I write one email, but I sent it to a million people, everybody knows the I didn’t really write that for you, I just wrote that.

    And being more human means in a positive sense, means having empathy, empathy, we use that term a lot, and it gets misused a lot.

    Empathy means knowing what someone else is experiencing and taking action on it.

    Alright, sympathy is expressing emotions in support of somebody else’s feelings.

    But empathy is knowing what someone’s going through and taking action on it, right.

    So if you see somebody who is sitting down and tired, after after walking a whole bunch, you get them a bottle of water, right, because you know what they’re going through, you recognize what’s going on, and you take action on it.

    And that is a key part of being more human that machines are not capable of doing yet, right, they can emulate it to a certain degree, but it’s still not quite there.

    So that, to me is what being more human means It means exercising empathy, exercising judgment.

    And it means doing stuff that doesn’t scale.

    Right? The less something scales, the more valuable it is to us.

    And the more something scales, the less personal is.

    So if you want your marketing to seem more human, try doing things that don’t scale, especially if you’re a small business, especially if you’re starting out.

    And you don’t have you know, a million people on your client roster.

    Just start doing stuff that doesn’t scale that but that shows commitment to that you understand the other person.

    Real simple example, when I’m about ready to publish a new piece of research, or something, I always send it out to our clients first, right, they get it before our Slack community, they get it for a newsletter list, they get it for social media content.

    Even if it’s just 20 minutes before, I always want our customers to know, you are first in line, our paying customers are first in line.

    And a lot of companies don’t necessarily do that.

    They will think that way.

    Like, hey, here’s a new study, right? Our customers get the new thing before anybody else.

    And they don’t have to fill out any forms.

    We know who they are.

    So they get they get that special access they’ve made to feel special, because that’s empathy.

    I know what someone else is experiencing.

    And I can take action on it.

    When you get an announcement, hey, download this new paper, right? You know what’s gonna go on here like yet another form to fill out and some of them from sales gonna call me and so on and so forth.

    By take action, say, Hey, here’s the new thing.

    You want to do anything else? I’m just giving it to you.

    That short circuits that loop and makes you go, Oh, yeah, you get me, you get where I’m going with this, you, you understand that? I don’t really want to fill out another form, but you’re just giving me the thing like, yep, that’s because I value you as a customer.

    So that’s what being more human and marketing means.

    Now, there are many, many more dimensions of it, because there’s so many more dimensions of being human.

    But that would be my first take on it.

    Good question.

    Thanks for asking.

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