Category: Awakening

Metal is interesting stuff. Take a paper clip, made from steel. You can bend it a little fairly often. You can bend it a lot a few times.

After just a few big bends or many small bends, the metal fatigues. It begins to crumble, and eventually the paper clip snaps.

There’s no way to repair it once the metal has fatigued, save to melt it down and recast it again as a new paper clip.

When you think about it, we’re much the same way.

We can handle a little bit of stress for a long time, or a lot of stress a few times, but eventually we snap; we physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually crumble.

If we’re lucky, we experience catharsis, a meltdown, as a way to recast ourselves to be just as strong, maybe even a little bit stronger.

The lesson here is that when you hit fatigue, when you’ve broken, you may not be able to piece things back together.

Sometimes it may not even be worth trying.

Instead, like melting down and recasting, you have to start over. That’s perfectly okay. Let yourself be okay with that.

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Stop me if you’ve heard this one. At every time management training ever, someone brings up the analogy of a jar with a pile of rocks and sand, and emphasizes that you have to put the big rocks in the jar before the sand, as an allegory of prioritizing tasks.

Here’s the problem with this analogy: it makes the presumption that size of task is the only priority. The reality is that prioritization of things happens along more than one dimension. The three dimensions of prioritization I use are urgent, important, and efficient.

Urgent is fairly obvious. How soon is something due? All other things being equal, take care of the thing that’s due first. That said, rarely are all other things equal.

Important is also fairly obvious. How important is a task? You may have two tasks that are urgent, but only one of them has any importance. For example, you might have a million dollar programming contract on your desk, and you might also have an internal request to change the color of the corporate intranet to be lime green. Both are due in a week. One of them matters.

The last dimension that is less obvious is efficient. This is what the analogy of rocks and sand supposedly addresses, that you want to tackle the big stuff first, then the little stuff, so that little stuff doesn’t fill up your day. The reality is, however, that the more stuff you have on your plate of any size, the more mental bandwidth it consumes. Eventually you end up feeling overwhelmed and nothing gets done. If you have a choice between getting 5 things off your list of moderate importance, or making 5% headway on the really big thing on your list, depending on the other two factors of urgency and importance, it may make more sense to burn down the 5 things.

Most time management systems narrowly focus on one of the factors above. Consider revamping your task management and time management to take into account all three.

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Over the weekend, a bunch of people tagged me in a Facebook meme about my top 15 literary influences. The first thing that came to mind was, “what an interesting opportunity to promote people I actually read”. The second thing that came to mind was, “I don’t have time to do this right”. What was a simple meme to other people was an opportunity to promote and support authors that I love, provide links to their works, and potentially even earn half of a penny on the occasional Amazon click-through. (the last bit was sarcasm)

The problem was, to do it right – assembling the list, linking it up, etc. – required a lot more time than I was initially willing to devote to the meme, so I didn’t participate. More and more lately, I’m faced with a choice that is binary – do it right at a significant time investment, or do it half-assed and very quickly. The choice isn’t actually much of a choice, not for things that matter.

For the work I do at work, doing it right is the only choice, which often means not doing something else entirely. For example, I spent over 6 hours recently working on a blog post, because there was a fast way to do it that was wrong, and a correct, slow way to do it right. I had to do it right, because it reflects on the people I work with.

For the work I do for myself, doing it right is the only choice a large percentage of the time, because other people rely on that work, from my newsletter to my daily social postings to my public speaking. I can’t get up on stage and do a half-assed job. I shouldn’t do a half-assed job on anything that other people need.

The idea of doing less stuff better comes at a significant cost, a hefty price to pay, and the price is doing less stuff overall. I had to make a difficult choice this past weekend, choosing to spend time with my family who I’d been away from for a week due to business travel, or choosing to attend a relatively rare seminar with one of my teachers, Stephen K. Hayes. I couldn’t do either half-assed, showing up for a little of each. Ultimately, I chose to do it right and commit to family first, but I know that I paid a heavy opportunity cost in personal development that I’ll need to pay more for later down the line. There will be a time when I can “do it right” for my training as well.

We cannot add more hours to the day. We can only choose what we do and how well we do it. At a certain point, we have to make tough choices about what we won’t do, from memes to things we want. May your choices be the right ones.

And for those people tagging me in that meme, I will do it eventually. When I do, I’ll do it right.

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Seth Godin is trying to get you killed. Perhaps not in a literal, go jump off a bridge sense, but his recent advice about not requiring success before you have confidence is dangerous.

Take a moment to think about confidence. Go back to ancient Rome, in which the word confidere means to have full trust.

The most dangerous thing you can do is to express full trust in something that isn’t trustworthy. One of my martial arts teachers, Ken Savage, refers to this often as “reaching for something that isn’t there”, in the sense of trying to use a skill that you haven’t learned fully, and thus is unworthy of your full trust – your confidence.

Contrary to what Seth says, confidence is born out of repeated success. Success is an absolute prerequisite of confidence, because repeatable, reliable success creates your full trust in whatever it is you’re doing. Your full trust also implies that you know what you don’t fully trust, what your limitations are, what you can’t do, and if you are in a make-or-break situation where you need as sure an outcome as possible, you go with what you know works, what you know to be fully trustworthy.

Charging into a dangerous situation without a toolkit of methods and tools that you know you can trust fully isn’t confidence. That’s recklessness, and in a truly dangerous situation, be it a martial confrontation, or only two months’ marketing budget left for a 10 month year, you cannot afford to be reckless. There is a time and place for experimentation – when the stakes are low, when you’re in a learning environment. You can be a little reckless on the test server. You can be a little reckless with gloves on in a safe dojo with caring instructors. You absolutely cannot be reckless if the stakes are high. Unwarranted confidence will get you killed. It will get your business killed.

Sorry, Seth; on this we have to disagree. Confidence doesn’t just require success – confidence is born of it.

Incidentally, if you like the graphic above, type “etymology of confidence” into Google to get those very cool etymology charts.

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One of the joys I’ve experienced recently is watching my daughter learning the art of riding horses. At her first competition (after a few months of lessons), I learned about one of the categories on which she was being judged, something called equitation. I, having never ridden a horse besides the kiddie pony ride horses when I was a child, had no idea what equitation was.

It turns out that equitation is a fancy word for horsemanship, and it’s about the rider’s poise, command, and presence while on a horse, from basics like the cleanliness of the horse to the rider’s posture, and most importantly, the ability of the rider to control the horse with a commanding but relaxed presence.

I suspect equitation has its roots in the military application of horsemanship. The ability to control a horse with a relaxed command means that a horse is responsive to you. That skill would be handy in less calm situations such as a battlefield, where keeping order in a cavalry line would mean not only your own safety, but preventing panic from spreading to other horses in the line.

In watching my daughter’s lessons, one of the most important factors in equitation is your own attitude, energy, and approach to the horse. If you train with the horse and learn its idiosyncrasies, if you know its limitations, if you reward it amply and maintain your own calm and poise when it misbehaves, in time it learns to trust you and obey you. If your behavior towards it is obnoxious, at best it’s not going to do what you want and at worst it’s going to throw you, which can lead to serious injury or death.

In thinking about discussions in recent days about girls, bossiness, and what not to say, maybe we should take a fresh look at the very old art of equitation for some answers about what we do want girls to learn about leadership. While what we don’t want to call them matters, I think it’s equally or more important that we positively define what we do want them to be. The traits that make for outstanding command over your horse are traits that make for an outstanding leader as well.

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Ever made a plain chocolate cake and found strawberries in the middle when you sat down to eat it?

Ever made a chicken dinner and found that you used pork instead?

These may seem like laughable, ludicrous examples, but they prove an important point: generally speaking, end results have their ingredients in them. If you set out to bake a chocolate cake and you didn’t put strawberries in during the baking process, it’s highly unlikely you’re going to get strawberries in it when the cake comes out of the oven. It’s highly unlikely that you’d put a turkey in the oven for Thanksgiving dinner and found when you served it to your guests that it was actually pork.

Likewise, generally speaking, most things that happen in life are the result of their ingredients, too. If your marketing program is filled with terrible content, chances are you didn’t start with great content and it just magically became terrible. It was probably not wonderful to begin with. If your religion or your political party is spewing hate, it’s because there is at least some hate in some of the people in your group. If your company is generally behaving unethically or illegally, it’s because there is at least someone in leadership that is condoning or perpetrating the bad behavior. Like the old Prego spaghetti sauce commercial, it’s in there.

There are no effects in life without causes. If you want to find out what’s wrong, whether it’s a failed marketing campaign, a failed marriage, a failed religion, a failed anything, work backwards from the effect you see. What could have immediately caused the effect you see? What caused that intermediary step? What caused that previous intermediary step? Work backwards from the end and you’ll find the answer. Sometimes, the answer is deeply unpleasant, particularly on a personal level. You may find, as I have many times in my life, that I am directly at fault for an effect I created.

Whatever effect you see, the cause is in there.

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Last week was not a great week for me personally. I screwed up a couple of times, and once in a fairly spectacular manner (with a client, no less). When I found out that I had screwed up, I had a couple of choices. I could deny the blame entirely, which in an era of technology is relatively easy to do in the short term. I could shift the blame, which plenty of managers do. The last, most painful choice in the short term was to own the blame entirely.

Two things about blame and responsibility. First, in an era when we are swimming in data and meta-data, the truth always comes out eventually. It might be a decade before someone realizes what you’re up to (hello, NSA), but eventually, the truth becomes known.

Second, and most importantly, blame is a lot like medicine. The sooner you take it, no matter how bad it tastes, the less it hurts in the long run. If you deny medicine until a problem becomes critical, you cross a point where the medicine doesn’t do any good and the world caves in on you. If you accept the medicine early, the chances of it being effective are significantly greater. The same is true of accepting responsibility for your screwups. The sooner you take that medicine, the less damage the problem eventually causes.

What did I choose? Once I had figured out what I had done, I called the client and I willingly stood in front of the bus. There were and will continue to be consequences for me for screwing up, but they are significantly less than they would have been if I had made any other choice.

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