Category: Awakening

  • It takes two to make a bully

    Kimonos + Katanas = AWESOMEI was reading bedtime stories the other night and came across a gem by Richard Scarry in the 365 Bedtime Stories compendium, which I think is incredibly illustrative of the way we dealt with bullies in the past and the way we deal with them now.

    In the short story The Rudiments, a boy is bullied in the schoolyard and goes home to his father. His father, knowing how the rules of the schoolyard go, teaches his son the rudiments of boxing. Later on, the bully returns to the boy and gets a bloodied nose for his efforts. They make up afterwards and become schoolyard friends.

    How much our culture has changed in the 35 years since Scarry’s book was written. How little personal responsibility we are willing to take, and how little personal responsibility we encourage our children to take for their own safety, welfare, and confidence. I’m reminded of a quote from my teacher’s teacher, Stephen K. Hayes: it takes two to make a bully – the bully and a willing victim. Most bullies are folks who are not looking for a fair fight. They’re looking for someone to use. If it’s obvious you’re not going to roll over and give in, they’ll typically move on to someone easier, someone who is willing to play the role they want them to play.

    When I look at the “epidemic” of schoolyard bullying, there is blame to be assigned, unquestionably. It’s not the school’s fault. It’s not the bullies’ fault. It’s not the child’s fault.

    The blame squarely falls on the parents of the bullied child.

    Now, just to be clear, the bully has as much responsibility for the act of bullying as the victim, but the reality of life is that there will always be bullies, jackasses, profoundly clueless and deeply irresponsible people, and just plain idiots. When they do something stupid, it has an impact, unquestionably, but you have little to no control over them. You have total control over yourself and how you choose to respond, and a bullied child has that same control and responsibility. That’s where parents are falling down hard now – they’re taking away (or never giving) their kids that power.

    Every time you intercede on your child’s behalf or appeal to the school system, every time you negotiate for more impotent rules to attempt to govern the behavior of other people’s kids, every time you whisk your child away from an unpleasant situation without encouraging them to solve it for themselves, every time you give away your child’s power to stand up for themselves to a teacher, monitor, lawyer, principal, you make them that much weaker and more vulnerable to bullying, especially when they’re very young. It’s akin to blasting your immune system with antibiotics every time you get a runny nose. The immune system’s ability to fight back is never tested and strengthened, and when some serious illness comes along, your body completely caves in. The same exact principle is at work every time you swoop in to rescue your child.

    Stop coddling your child and interceding on their behalf, and teach them how to fight back by whatever means are available. Enroll them in a martial arts class. Teach them how to network and be an incredible friend-maker so that other kids in the schoolyard will ally with your child, even if they’re physically not able to fight back. Teach them most of all how to stand up for themselves against all those who would do them harm, because if you don’t, they will be permanent victims for life.

    When I was a kid, I got a healthy dose of bullying in the schoolyard, especially being small, short, and not especially athletic. Instead of just giving into it or crying to my parents about it, I took action, finding friends willing to help me stand up against it and finding my own, very unique ways to fight back against it. Later on, I got involved in the martial arts to strengthen my physical abilities to protect myself and the people I cared about, but most important, my parents (especially my dad) encouraged me to stand up for myself however I could from very early on, and true to form, the bullies went elsewhere, for easier opportunities.

    Bullying changes as you get older, but it never stops. The physical acts of violence might diminish, perhaps, but there are just as many bullies in your cubicle farm now as there are on your playground of yesterday. The tormentor who made fun of you being tall, short, black, white, fat, thin, whatever back then is the one who gossips against you now, sending memos to undercut you, makes discriminatory comments behind your back, and is working to sabotage the people around him or her because they can.

    If your child never learns how to stand up and punch someone in the face (literally or metaphorically) from very early on, then they will endure it for the rest of their lives, because bullies and asshats are a perpetual constant. Wouldn’t you rather give your child the confidence to escape or stop a bad situation when they’re very young, so that they learn it’s okay to stand up for themselves, that it’s not okay to be a victim, for the rest of their lives?

    What if your child became so strong, so confident, so powerful in their own right with your guidance that they not only stood up for themselves, but stood up for others and were able to make their own schoolyard world a little brighter, more cheerful, more safe? Wouldn’t that be amazing? It all starts with your role as a parent to help build that strong personality, that strength of character and confidence, that iron will to act and not waver in the face of wrongness.

    Incidentally, those are also the attributes of the people we call heroes.


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  • The easiest social media strategy in the world

    Which is more important, building new business or keeping the business you have?

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    Which is more efficient? More cost effective?

    If the answer isn’t obvious, it’s because you, like me, work in marketing and have worked in marketing for probably too long. The allure of inbound marketing is compelling, the allure of winning new business and being a hero to your company’s sales and marketing teams is heady.

    When you dig in past new website visitors, new goal conversions in Google Analytics, new opportunities in your sales pipeline, when you go past the surface details that keep us as marketers occupied and happy, the stark truth is that not much of it matters. Not much of it moves the needle in comparison to the greatest and most powerful marketing weapon you should have at your disposal:

    Existing customers who are so deliriously happy with you that they are evangelizing on your behalf harder than any Sunday morning preacher.

    Think about all the truths we give lip service to, especially in social media: it’s all about being human. It’s all about relationships. It’s all about being there before the sale. Then think about how much of your time, energy, and budget you expend as a marketer or a CEO on anything but strengthening the relationships you’ve already got.

    You want an easy social media strategy that requires little investment, little research, and very little cleverness or technical skill to execute? Set up relationships, friendships, and/or followerships with every one of your customers who is willing to do so and then spend your time listening to them. Every time a customer tweets or posts to their wall about something that’s having a serious impact on them, personally or professionally, touch base, even if it’s just in sympathy. Every time a customer has a problem with your product or service, be there before anyone else can get a chance to respond and ask sincerely how you can help, then fix their problem.

    In relatively short order, as long as you’re sincere and dedicated in your efforts to help strengthen the relationships you’ve already got, new business will start to increase. Word of mouth will make your sales cycle shorten dramatically because your existing customers will do all the browbeating for you. Profits will go up from happy customers ready to spend their money on whatever you’ve got next, to the point where they’ll nag you for more things they can buy. Ask any successful musician about how loud that can get from rabid fans for the next album, the next single, the next t-shirt, anything.

    This is one of the few times where there’s no catch, where you truly can have massive leverage with relatively few resources, where you can move the needle dramatically and quickly with just hard work and no bag of tricks or arcane technologies. Put your heart and soul into loving the customers you’ve already got, and watch how they’ll open doors for you to customers you’d never reach otherwise. Show honest gratitude to them for their support and work your ass off to keep earning it, day after day.


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  • The name is the result

    I had the pleasure and privilege to attend New England Warrior Camp again this year (my 11th out of 13) in the woods of Sudbury, Massachusetts this past weekend. Others have done a much better job illuminating the actual goings-on, such as my friend and senior, Jon Merz. One of my huge takeaways from the weekend, however, came from one of the training sessions.

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    Dennis Mahoney, head instructor at Shinobi Martial Arts, gave us this important lesson in his session:

    The name of a technique describes the effect on your attacker, not what you do.

    In the martial arts, we get so fixated on what we’re supposed to be doing that we forget completely about what we’re supposed to be achieving. Dennis’ session was a stark reminder that our goal is what matters, not our method. As a martial artist, you can get to omotegyakutedori, the outward wrist twist catch and lock, with your hands, arms, feet, weapons, probably even a used cheeseburger container. As long as you achieve the effects of getting the upper quarter of the body locked up, spine locked, and arm assembly locked, you’ve more or less achieved the technique.

    Where most of us go wrong is in rigid insistence that we move exactly a certain way, hold the hand or wrist in exactly the right manner at exactly the right angle – despite the fact that conditions and situations may dictate a completely different set of methods to get to the desired result. Instead of adapting to the situation and working towards a goal, we get bogged down in “the way we’re supposed to do it”, as though attackers use textbook methods to assault us.

    So what does this have to do with anything outside the martial arts? Think about how insistent some people can be on any particular marketing method. You MUST be using social media! You MUST be using email marketing! You MUST be doing SEO.

    Well, no. What you MUST do is know what outcome you are trying to achieve, and then figure out which of the tools in your toolbox can help you achieve that result. Think about that for a second. What’s the purpose of email marketing? To reach out to people and let them know about stuff that’s going on, right? What else can do that? Email can, certainly. So can Twitter. So can LinkedIn, Facebook, etc.. All of those have mechanisms for outreach, and thus if the desired effect is “let people know stuff is going on”, then the thing we call email marketing isn’t just POP3, SMTP, and IMAP, but a collection of tools to reach people and a way of doing it that makes them glad to hear from us.

    Here’s another example: search engine optimization. This means being findable, right? Findable where? Our narrow view of marketing says that we obey the dictates of Google, and while that’s important, being findable also means making sure your podcast is in iTunes, that your business can be located on various location services, that you have social profiles with consistent naming, and so on. Being findable is far more than just inbound link building.

    The next time you sit down to evaluate your marketing, look at it from the perspective of what you want to achieve and then examine all of your tools to see if they can be used in that context. You might be surprised to realize that some of the tools in your toolbox have far more uses than what you’ve traditionally used them for.


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  • The obligation of the content creator

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    How long does it take to scan a tweet? To read a blog post? To listen to a podcast? To watch a video?

    Perhaps seconds. Perhaps minutes. Depending on what your content is and how much of it you create, you could be asking your friends, followers, and fans to give up incredible amounts of their lives to you. Think about it:

    • This is blog post #2,085. If it takes you 5 minutes to read a blog post, you may have given me as much as 174 hours of your life, or a full week and change.
    • I’m at tweet #23,461. At 5 seconds a tweet, that’s still 32 hours or more than a full day of your life that you’ve given me.
    • If you listen to my podcast, Marketing over Coffee, you’ve invested 69 hours or almost 3 days of your life.

    That’s a lot of time you may have given me. I have an obligation as a content creator to provide something that is worth that time, because that 275 hours is time you could have spent doing something else, listening to someone else, paying attention to something more worthwhile. Instead, you’ve willingly invested that in me (thank you!), and as a result, I have an obligation to honor that commitment to you by providing you with stuff that’s useful, helpful, enjoyable, and hopefully powerful.

    Guess what? If you are a content creator in social media, you have that same obligation. Your fans, followers, and friends that invest time in you are giving up, even if just for a little while, pieces of their lives. Your obligation to them is to give them what they came for and then some, provide them the value they want, whether it’s humor, business, marketing, porn, absurdity, religion… whatever it is that they value and have come to you for, your responsibility is to provide it and then some.

    One of the biggest lies in social media is that it’s free. While bandwidth costs are negligible and devices amortize out over time to pennies a day, the one thing that grows more valuable every day is time. Social media is not free. Social media costs you as a content creator the time it takes you to create, and it costs everyone who listens to you the time it takes them to enjoy what you’ve created.

    Our shared imperative, yours and mine, then, is to not waste people’s time with mediocre stuff. Every time we hit the publish button, we owe it to those folks willing to give up massive parts of their lives (a little bit at a time) to make it worth their while. Before you push out the next piece of content, ask yourself if it’s really worthwhile, and if it’s not, sharpen your pencil and hack at it until it is. That’s the only way to repay the debt we have incurred from our fans who are lending us their incredibly valuable time.

    Is your content worth the lives it’s consuming?


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  • You might be doing it wrong…

    You might be doing it wrong…

    … if you enjoyed my talk about awakening your superhero with the power of social media and then went back to the office and enforced rules about not using social networks at work.

    … if you read the latest book from your favorite business author, demanded everyone read it, and then didn’t implement a single idea from it.

    … if you watch and are moved by a TED talk about the devastating impact of global warming and then get in your 10 MPG SuperSUV to go to work.

    … if you say social media isn’t about numbers of friends and followers, and then keep on checking Twitter Counter.

    In Buddhism, there’s a concept called ignorance which isn’t about a lack of knowledge (as the term is generally used) but a willful denial of reality around you. You’re trying to actively ignore things that would otherwise wake you up and make you change for the better.

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    This sacred Buddhist text can be summarized in three words: dude, wake up.

    The antidote to ignorance is mindfulness, or waking the hell up and living in the present, in the here and now, in the reality that’s around you, and acknowledging that what you want may be very different than what you have. The first, simplest step to becoming more aware of what’s around you is to practice living in a mindful manner, with regular routine breaks out of habits to recenter yourself.

    For example, take the 10-2-5 time management method that we’ve talked about. Once you’ve gotten the hang of using it, add a little bit of mindful practice to it. At the beginning of each 10 minute stretch (or the end of a 2 minute break, depending on your perspective), take a moment to fix your posture and sit up. Just something as simple as that – add that in.

    If you’re responsible for managing people, you can encourage mindfulness in yourself and themselves by giving feedback regularly, routinely, and extremely frequently, rather than waiting for an annual or semi-annual corporate process. If you commit to recentering and refocusing weekly or even daily, you’ll find it’s easier to make changes and get more done. I commit to reviewing my work and the work of my team every Monday and Friday, for example; we look on Mondays at what we have to do and on Fridays we look at what we did.

    A few of you reading this post will try these exercises and gain great benefit from them. What about the rest of you?

    Will this blog post make you nod and agree vigorously… and then you’ll completely forget it in about two minutes?


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  • Three belief secrets about achieving your goals

    On a team that you know has the potential but needs a little something extra to get cooking? I’ve been in that exact situation many, many times in my professional career, working with people who were incredibly talented but for one reason or another, their potential was staying locked away. Sir Ken Robinson said once that human resources are exactly like natural resources – it takes time, effort, and energy to dig out human potential and transform it into something useful.

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    One of the most useful tools for mining that potential, for bringing it to the surface, is goal setting. However, goal setting is more than just putting up endposts on a football field and then hoping that the players know what to do. Goal setting also involves belief setting, creating a three-part belief in your fellow team members. When each member of your team believes in all three parts, they become incredibly motivated to want to go the extra mile, to unleash their full power, to do whatever it takes to get the job done, to hit the goal.

    The three part goal beliefs are:

    • I believe in the goal, that it is worth achieving in an ethical sense.
    • I believe in the process, that there is a clear path to the goal that I can travel.
    • I believe in my team, that we are all aligned and focused on the goal, and will support each other to achieve the goal.

    Each of these points is vitally important. A goal has to be worth achieving, not just in a financial or numerical sense, but in a higher sense, an understanding that the goal (whatever it is) somehow makes the world a little bit better. This is the part that drives passion, that drives motivation, that makes people volunteer untold hours a year for their favorite charities, that keeps people working long after everyone else has gone home. If the goal doesn’t make the world a better place in a clear fashion, strongly consider abandoning it.

    A goal has to have a means of getting there. It’s fine to set a goal, but without a method for achieving it, it’s a daydream at best, a lazy wish rather than a process or recipe to follow that will get you to your destination. When you are setting your goals for yourself or others, think carefully about how you plan to get there.

    A goal, even individually achieved, still has to have the backing of the people around you. No woman or man is an island. Everyone up to this moment in your life has in some way participated in getting you get to where you are. If you want to achieve your goals faster, more effectively, more powerfully, and more happily, you need the right team at your back to help you up when you fall down and cheer you on when you’ve hit a hot streak, with the understanding that you’ll do the same for them.

    Take this triple secret to your next goal or mission and see if you can assert each part clearly, compactly, and strongly. If you can, I can promise you that you’ll get to your goal faster and arrive happier.


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  • Awakening your superhero at #140conf

    I had the pleasure and privilege of presenting at Jeff Pulver’s 140 Characters Conference yesterday. In just 10 minutes, I was challenged to change people’s thinking about the real-time web. Here’s what I came up with:

    Hat tip to Sean Zinsmeister over at MBA Book Club for recording and posting the video.


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  • We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to bring you the following special bulletin

    Reprinted with permission from J. Michael Straczynski, Amazing Spiderman 36

    We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to bring you the following special bulletin.

    Longitude: 74 degrees, 0 minutes, 23 seconds West.
    Latitude: 40 degrees, 42 minutes, 51 seconds North.
    Follow the sound of sirens.

    Some things are beyond words.
    Beyond comprehension.
    Beyond forgiveness.

    The questions come:

    How could you let this happen?
    Why didn’t you know this was coming?

    How do you say we didn’t know? We couldn’t know.
    We couldn’t imagine.
    Only madmen could contain the thought, execute the act, fly the planes.
    Even those we thought our enemies are moved. Because some things surpass rivalries and borders.
    Because the story of humanity is written not in towers but in tears.
    In the common coin of blood and bone.
    In the voice that speaks within even the worst of us, and says

    This is not right.

    Also here are those who face fire without fear or armor.
    Those who step into the darkness without assurances of ever walking out again, because they know there are others waiting in the dark.
    Awaiting salvation.
    Awaiting word.
    Awaiting justice.

    Ordinary men.
    Ordinary women.
    Made extraordinary by acts of compassion.
    And courage.
    And terrible sacrifice.

    “We’ve voted, and we’re going to try to take the plane.
    It’s the only way to stop them hitting Washington.
    I love you.”

    Ordinary men.
    Ordinary women.
    Refusing to surrender.

    Ordinary men.
    Ordinary women.
    Refusing to accept the self-serving proclamations of holy warriors of every stripe, who announce that somehow we had this coming.

    …probably what we deserve….
    All of them who have tried to secularize America…the pagans and the abortionists and the feminists and the gays and the lesbians and the ACLU…. I point the finger in their face and I say, “You helped this happen.” – Jerry Falwell

    — it is God’s will that America should fall through their iniquity and their sin – Osama bin Laden

    We reject them both in the knowledge that our tragedy is greater than the sum of our transgressions.

    Bodies in freefall on the evening news.

    Madness in mosques, shouting down fourteen centuries of earnest prayers, forgetting the lessons of crusades past:

    That the most harmed are the least deserving.

    There are no words.
    There are no words.

    The death of innocents and the death of innocence.
    Rage compounded upon rage. Rage enough to blot out the sun.
    And the air still filled with questions.

    Is it going to happen again?
    What do I tell my children?
    Why did this happen?

    What do we tell the children?
    Do we tell them the evil is a foreign face?

    No. The evil is the thought behind the face, and it can look just like yours.

    Do we tell them evil is tangible, with defined borders and names and geometries and destinies?

    No. They will have nightmares enough.

    Perhaps we tell them that we are sorry.
    Sorry that we were not able to deliver unto them the world we wished them to have.
    That our eagerness to shout is not the equal of our willingness to listen.
    That the burdens of distant people are the responsibility of all men and women of conscience, or their burdens will one day become our tragedy.

    Or perhaps we simply tell them that we love them, and that we will protect them. That we would give our lives for theirs and do it gladly, so great is the burden of our love.

    In a universe of Gameboys and VCRs, it is, perhaps, an insubstantial gift. But it is the only one that will wash away the tears and knit the wounds and make the world a sane place to live in.

    We could not see it coming. No one could. We could not stop it. No one could.
    But we are still here. With you.
    Today. Tomorrow. And the day after.

    We live in each blow you strike for infinite justice, but always in the hope of infinite wisdom.

    Because we live as well in the quiet turning of your considered conscience.
    The voice that says all wars have innocents.
    The voice that says you are a kind and a merciful people.
    The voice that says do not do as they do, or the war is lost before it is even begun.

    Do not let that knowledge be washed away in blood.

    When you move, we will move with you. Where you go, we will go with you.
    Where you are, we are in you.

    Because the future belongs to ordinary men and ordinary women, and that future must be built free of such acts as these, must be fought for and renewed like fresh water.

    Because a message must be sent to those who mistake compassion for weakness. A message sent across six thousand years of recorded blood and struggle.

    And the message is this:

    Whatever our history, whatever the root of our surnames, we remain a good and decent people, and we do not bow down and we do not give up.

    The fire of the human spirit cannot be quenched by bomb blasts or body counts.

    Cannot be intimidated forever into silence or drowned by tears.

    We have endured worse before; we will bear this burden and all that come after, because that’s what ordinary men and women do. We persevere.

    No matter what.
    This has not weakened us.
    It has only made us stronger.

    In recent years we as a people have been tribalized and factionalized by a thousand casual unkindnesses.

    But in this we are one.

    Flags sprout in uncommon places, the ground made fertile by tears and shared resolve.

    We have become one in our grief.
    We are now one in our determination.
    One as we recover.
    One as we rebuild.

    You wanted to send a message, and in so doing you awakened us from our self involvement.

    Message received.

    Look for your reply in the thunder.

    In such days as these are heroes born. The true heroes of the twenty-first century.
    You, the human being singular.
    You, who are nobler than you know and stronger than you think.
    You, the heroes of this moment chosen out of history.

    We stand blinded by the light of your unbroken will. Before that light, no darkness can prevail.

    They knocked down two tall towers. In their memory, draft a covenant with your conscience, that we will create a world in which such things need not occur.

    A world which will not require apologies to children, but also a world whose roads are not paved with the husks of their inalienable rights.

    They knocked down two tall towers. Graft now their echo onto your spine.
    Become girders and glass, stone and steel, so that when the world sees you, it sees them.

    And stand tall.

    Stand tall.

    Stand tall.

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  • Public service message: ScheduleAPickup.com

    Yesterday, I was walking along the streets of Boston, and noticed the biannual dumping of perfectly good stuff by college students on the sidewalks and streets. Mind you, this isn’t just the dorm room poster collection or something – we’re talking furniture in like new condition, clothing, lights, etc. – things that people with less money could use in their homes.

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    The problem is, most students don’t want to go to the trouble of hauling stuff like this to a charity. I can understand that, having been a student – the last thing on your mind as you’re moving out or in is moving yet MORE stuff somewhere else.

    I’d like your help in spreading a simple message to every college student, to everyone and anyone who has stuff in still usable condition. There’s a charity I support called the Vietnam Veterans of America that has a charity donation system that kicks ass. Here’s how it works: you visit ScheduleaPickup.com and pick what you’re giving away, and most importantly

    WHEN A TRUCK FROM THE CHARITY CAN COME TO YOUR PLACE AND PICK IT UP

    That’s right: no hauling. No moving. No schlepping. A truck magically appears on Wednesdays and takes your still perfectly good stuff away. They leave you a receipt for tax purposes, too.

    If you live nearby some college students who are throwing away perfectly good stuff, please consider corralling it to your yard or doorstep and then calling in the charity air strike yourself. There’s absolutely no reason that this stuff needs to take up space in a landfill when someone else can get some good out of it.

    Please spread the word LOUDLY about ScheduleaPickup.com and solve both a waste and charity problem at the same time AND with little to no effort on the donor’s part. Everyone wins.


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  • No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from

    Lend your voices only to sounds of freedom
    No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from
    Fill your lives with love and bravery
    And you shall lead a life uncommon

    – Jewel, A Life Uncommon

    Tell me what you struggle against and I will know that it is powerful, because you spend energy, time, resources, money, and strength struggling against it. Sometimes, it’s a worthy opponent. Rape. Murder. Child slavery. Genocide. These are powerful dark forces that need the armies of light to be marshaled against them ceaselessly. These are enemies worthy of any crusader’s judgement and merciless verdict.

    Crusader's Ascent

    Sometimes, however, you admit your own fears and inadequacies when you only stand for what you fight against, rather than what you fight for. You grant your enemy, whatever it is, legitimacy in your struggle against them. Every time you rail against Barack Obama or Rush Limbaugh, you prove that they’re potent forces to be reckoned with, otherwise you’d not spend time and energy on them. Your battle validates them. Every time you protest a Muslim mosque’s construction or lack of a minority in technology, you reinforce your own position as one so lacking power that you cannot solve your problems any other way than by tearing someone else down.

    Tell me instead what you stand for. What you fight for. Show me through your actions that if you emerge victorious from the struggle that you won’t immediately set your energy against tearing me down, because otherwise I’ll believe that you will. Instead of opposing a mosque, build a church or grow an existing one’s community and charity. Instead of opposing the other candidate, demonstrate your commitment to the people whose votes you seek that you are capable of good works with or without an opposing party. Instead of shouting me down, ascend past me so fast that I have no choice but to look up to you.

    You have more access to power, to superhero-like powers than ever before in human history. You sit at your desk, basking in wireless networks that let you reach out and touch more of humanity than ever was possible. You can effect change and mobilize people on the other side of the planet with your capabilities. You have the superhero powers. Do you have the superhero’s courage to stand up for something, to do something, to make the world a better place?

    … because in the world of superheroes, the person with great power who seeks only to tear others down and destroy?

    That’s the evil villain.


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