Category: Buddhism

The number of self-help and self-motivation guides available to people is simply staggering. Most of them do a wonderful job of getting you pumped up and energized for as long as you’re at the seminar, weekend retreat, or in the book. However, once your daily routine sets back in, that motivation can get sapped frighteningly quickly.

There’s an old “secret” for motivation that has been passed down to us through the ages. It’s called the triple secret, or the three jewels, and with it we can figure out the root cause of our motivational problems.

The triple secret is a three part test that you can use in your business and work:

I believe in myself.
I believe in my goals.
I believe in my community.

Let’s look at these three secrets.

I believe in myself.

If this is true, motivation flows naturally. If you believe in your own capabilities, in what you can accomplish, in your skills and knowledge, then you don’t feel intimidated or demotivated when faced with a challenge. Instead, you feel energized and excited for a fresh new chance to test out what you’re capable of.

Conversely, if this isn’t the case, then you need to change your focus to improving those skills, that knowledge, those capabilities, until you do have confidence in them. Practice. Seek out a mentor. Read, learn, study, and grow your abilities until they warrant confidence.

I believe in my goals.

Whether you’re working for yourself or for a Fortune 50 company, if you don’t believe in where you’re going, you have no reason to take the journey. Motivation is fleeting at best. Conversely, if the destination is incredibly compelling, woe is the person, place, or thing that stands in your way. You’re so driven that motivation is irrelevant.

We tend to focus on the making of goals, the setting of goals, and the measuring of goals without much questioning whether those goals are even worth attaining. For example, you may have a goal of selling 100 widgets this month, but if you don’t believe in the widgets or your business, the goal is meaningless and unmotivating. If the widgets are infant cardiac resuscitators and you know for sure that every device you sell saves babies, the goal doesn’t matter much – you want to get those into the hands of every person you possibly can.

I believe in my community.

Your community is everyone and everything that helps to move you forward. It’s coworkers, teachers, mentors, colleagues, subordinates, confidants, parents, siblings – everyone who could or should like for you to attain success. A strong community that stands behind you will help pick you up when you’re tired and cheer you on when you’re on fire. A weak community will demotivate you, drag you down, or possibly even undercut your efforts to make progress.

The critical difference between community and the other two tests is that community is largely under your control. You decide who to surround yourself with, especially in the global internetworked world we live in. You choose whose voices you hear daily, whose blogs you read, whose tweets you follow, who you have lunch with, etc. If your community is not helping you move forward, if your community is undermining your beliefs in yourself and in your valid goals, then it’s imperative that you change communities as much as possible.

Apply the tests!

Take a few minutes, a few hours, or even a few days if you’re finding that motivation is a persistent, recurring problem and apply these tests to your current situation. You may find that there are problems in each of the three areas – fix the most broken one first if you can, but fix something! You’ll find that when you do, getting and staying motivated gets much easier.

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In Buddhist monasteries, young monks are often made to practice the art of sutra copying. They’re given handwritten copies of sutras, or religious texts, and are made to copy the words and brushwork of master teachers onto new scrolls and books. These texts are often elaborate and beautifully written, sometimes in Sanskrit. Monks huddle over them and carefully replicate exactly what’s on the page so that the copy is as flawless as the original.

In the Western world, there are similar practices. I remember giving a friend a mezuzah as a housewarming gift once. Mezuzah are tiny scrolls with a portion of the Torah inscribed by hand on them. The scrolls are placed inside a blessed container and hung on the doorway of a house for good fortune or to ward off evil. These mezuzah are meticulously copied by hand, with the belief that an improperly copied one transforms energy into bad luck rather than good luck.

In both examples, there are far more efficient and effective methods to accomplish the same result, a perfectly copied text. Simply take a digital camera or a word processor that can output Sanskrit or Hebrew and start making copies. You could copy the entirety of the Heart Sutra flawlessly just by repeatedly hitting copy / paste on your keyboard. You could mass print mezuzah even at absurdly small font sizes and still have them be perfect copies of scripture.

Of course, that isn’t what’s done. In fact, the respective practitioners of these spiritual practices would find the idea laughable at best and repugnant at worst. Just as there are times when it is wholly appropriate to stop doing what you’ve always done for the sake of tradition, there are also times when it’s vital to dig in and keep the old way intact. In the case of scripture copying, there’s the esoteric argument that only through the human hand can you capture the flavor and energy of the original text, much in the same way that no audio system perfectly replicates the experience of hearing the music performed live.

The more practical reason that these traditions exist is that it’s as much about learning the scriptures by heart as it is replicating data. If you were to hit copy/paste on the sutra, you could mindlessly replicate it without ever learning it. In contrast, monks are forced to learn them word for word, every subtlety and nuance, in order to make a perfect copy by hand.

When it comes to any significant or important practice that you’re doing, whether spiritual or in business, investigate it and question it! Learn why the practice exists as it does and what the underlying reasons for “doing it as it’s always been done” are. Sometimes there may be a valid reason to change the practice and make it more efficient, but sometimes there may be an equally valid reason to leave things exactly as they are.

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Ever lost someone you cared about?

Ever faced impossible odds or certain defeat?

The difference in life between those for whom events and circumstances crush them and those who overwhelm their circumstances to success (or at least a decent Pyrrhic victory) is all in how we approach them.

For some, escaping loss and sorrow is the best way out. We retreat from the circumstances, we get away, we change our context so that the loss doesn’t hurt nearly as much, so that it’s not in our faces all the time. We take the measured break from the life we lead to reset, reboot, and find our way out of blinding sadness. One day, we wake up from the nightmare and can live again.

For others, we work together to overcome our respective sorrows. We teach where and when we can to help others just starting out on their journeys how to overcome initial obstacles, maybe how to take that time off, and in the process of teaching, we learn and grow ourselves. We find that sometimes the best advice is coming from us, but we just forgot to get the memo. One day we wake up, realize that we’ve been teaching ourselves as well as others, and we are healed of our woes.

For a select few who are especially courageous and especially willing to subject ourselves to the fire, we dive straight into our misery and like a blacksmith pounding iron into swords, we find it within ourselves to twist and reshape our sorrows into motivators. We turn loss into gain, sadness into resoluteness, anguish into unyielding will to do more, be more, achieve more in the face of what we’ve lost. We honor the past by forging the brightest future we can. One day we wake up and realize we’ve become greater than we ever could have been without our loss, and in a wonderful, poignant irony we become thankful for hearing the lessons of our sorrows and being richer for it.

Whichever pathway you choose, may you find your way home.

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