Category: Education

  • Lighting mediocrity’s darkness with personal branding

    Much has been said about personal branding, about establishing an unmistakeable identity in the online and offline worlds. Some judge it to be essential, while others call it the height of narcissism. That said, there’s an overwhelming tide racing to the shore now that only things like personal branding can endure: a tide of enforced mediocrity.

    Take a read of this article about West Potomac High School all but removing failing grades as part of the educational process. By effectively removing the ability to fail, the school blurs the line between those students who are capable of doing good work in a timely fashion and those students who do mediocre work whenever they feel like it.

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    Here’s the problem: under this system, there’s no way to tell a B or C level student who works hard from a B or C level student who has no discipline. Changes such as this effectively make things like GPA (which were already fairly skewed and not terribly useful measures) and academic records useless measures of quality. As trends like this spread (and they invariably do), we remove more and more ways to judge a person’s capabilities.

    Who would you rather hire? A hard worker or a lazy, undisciplined worker? Under models like West Potomac’s, you can’t tell the difference from academic track record. The diploma looks the same.

    This is where personal branding comes in. This is where personal branding transcends being an exercise in self-congratulation and becomes a useful tool. As we continue to enforce mediocrity throughout our society in the name of self-esteem, those people who invest the time and effort to build credible personal brands will have the advantage when it comes to being hired, being promoted, and being valued. This is especially true for new college graduates, since they typically don’t have a track record of achievement and experience to point to, making one bachelor’s degree as good as the next.

    So what should you do to build a personal brand? What should you advise your kids, your coworkers, your friends to do? Start obviously by stacking up achievements and doing great work. If you have no latitude to do interesting things in your current workplace, volunteer somewhere to put your talents to use in unconventional ways. Reinforce your great work by building out a strong content presence, blogging about what you’re doing, connecting and building a strong network as quickly as possible, and finding more opportunities to add to your track record of achievement.

    Who would you rather hire? A B or C level student with a diploma and nothing else, or a B or C level student with a diploma, blog about your industry or vertical, well connected network, maybe even a magazine article or two, and a pile of LinkedIn recommendations praising them for their hard work as a volunteer? It’s a no-brainer if you’re looking to hire talented people.

    No matter how much we neuter academic achievement or homogenize education for a consistently mediocre result, there is no way to disguise hard work, dedication, focus, and achievement in real world results. Your personal brand is your single best method for communicating that to the world, and as more and more signals of quality get diluted for the sake of poor achievers’ self-esteem, building a credible personal brand should become higher and higher priority for you.


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  • It takes two to make a bully

    Kimonos + Katanas = AWESOMEI was reading bedtime stories the other night and came across a gem by Richard Scarry in the 365 Bedtime Stories compendium, which I think is incredibly illustrative of the way we dealt with bullies in the past and the way we deal with them now.

    In the short story The Rudiments, a boy is bullied in the schoolyard and goes home to his father. His father, knowing how the rules of the schoolyard go, teaches his son the rudiments of boxing. Later on, the bully returns to the boy and gets a bloodied nose for his efforts. They make up afterwards and become schoolyard friends.

    How much our culture has changed in the 35 years since Scarry’s book was written. How little personal responsibility we are willing to take, and how little personal responsibility we encourage our children to take for their own safety, welfare, and confidence. I’m reminded of a quote from my teacher’s teacher, Stephen K. Hayes: it takes two to make a bully – the bully and a willing victim. Most bullies are folks who are not looking for a fair fight. They’re looking for someone to use. If it’s obvious you’re not going to roll over and give in, they’ll typically move on to someone easier, someone who is willing to play the role they want them to play.

    When I look at the “epidemic” of schoolyard bullying, there is blame to be assigned, unquestionably. It’s not the school’s fault. It’s not the bullies’ fault. It’s not the child’s fault.

    The blame squarely falls on the parents of the bullied child.

    Now, just to be clear, the bully has as much responsibility for the act of bullying as the victim, but the reality of life is that there will always be bullies, jackasses, profoundly clueless and deeply irresponsible people, and just plain idiots. When they do something stupid, it has an impact, unquestionably, but you have little to no control over them. You have total control over yourself and how you choose to respond, and a bullied child has that same control and responsibility. That’s where parents are falling down hard now – they’re taking away (or never giving) their kids that power.

    Every time you intercede on your child’s behalf or appeal to the school system, every time you negotiate for more impotent rules to attempt to govern the behavior of other people’s kids, every time you whisk your child away from an unpleasant situation without encouraging them to solve it for themselves, every time you give away your child’s power to stand up for themselves to a teacher, monitor, lawyer, principal, you make them that much weaker and more vulnerable to bullying, especially when they’re very young. It’s akin to blasting your immune system with antibiotics every time you get a runny nose. The immune system’s ability to fight back is never tested and strengthened, and when some serious illness comes along, your body completely caves in. The same exact principle is at work every time you swoop in to rescue your child.

    Stop coddling your child and interceding on their behalf, and teach them how to fight back by whatever means are available. Enroll them in a martial arts class. Teach them how to network and be an incredible friend-maker so that other kids in the schoolyard will ally with your child, even if they’re physically not able to fight back. Teach them most of all how to stand up for themselves against all those who would do them harm, because if you don’t, they will be permanent victims for life.

    When I was a kid, I got a healthy dose of bullying in the schoolyard, especially being small, short, and not especially athletic. Instead of just giving into it or crying to my parents about it, I took action, finding friends willing to help me stand up against it and finding my own, very unique ways to fight back against it. Later on, I got involved in the martial arts to strengthen my physical abilities to protect myself and the people I cared about, but most important, my parents (especially my dad) encouraged me to stand up for myself however I could from very early on, and true to form, the bullies went elsewhere, for easier opportunities.

    Bullying changes as you get older, but it never stops. The physical acts of violence might diminish, perhaps, but there are just as many bullies in your cubicle farm now as there are on your playground of yesterday. The tormentor who made fun of you being tall, short, black, white, fat, thin, whatever back then is the one who gossips against you now, sending memos to undercut you, makes discriminatory comments behind your back, and is working to sabotage the people around him or her because they can.

    If your child never learns how to stand up and punch someone in the face (literally or metaphorically) from very early on, then they will endure it for the rest of their lives, because bullies and asshats are a perpetual constant. Wouldn’t you rather give your child the confidence to escape or stop a bad situation when they’re very young, so that they learn it’s okay to stand up for themselves, that it’s not okay to be a victim, for the rest of their lives?

    What if your child became so strong, so confident, so powerful in their own right with your guidance that they not only stood up for themselves, but stood up for others and were able to make their own schoolyard world a little brighter, more cheerful, more safe? Wouldn’t that be amazing? It all starts with your role as a parent to help build that strong personality, that strength of character and confidence, that iron will to act and not waver in the face of wrongness.

    Incidentally, those are also the attributes of the people we call heroes.


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  • Apprenticeship, little things, and formulae for success

    Summer 2008 PhotosIn old Japan, it was fairly common for a young person in the tradesman class to be apprenticed to a master. Whether it was blacksmithing, cooking, or any tradeskill, apprenticeship was just about the only way to get an education. What’s interesting about old Japanese apprenticeships was the duration and work asked of the apprentice. In many cases, an apprentice would spend many years doing very menial work, like sweeping the floor of the blacksmith shop.

    There’s a reason for this: unlike today, in which we teach only parts of any given discipline, being told to sweep the floor of the shop for four years taught something incredibly valuable to an apprentice. The apprentice got to see the total view of being a blacksmithing master.

    What do I mean?

    Everything from how the master greeted customers, to his accounting system, to his marketing, to his trade was witnessed by the apprentice. Instead of being told to market and greet customers in a textbook (with no details on how), the apprentice got to see the master working firsthand. The apprentice, over a period of years, got to understand the seasonality of the business and the ebb and flow of customers. Given the tumultuous times that comprised so much of medieval Japan, the apprentice likely got a chance to see what business was like in times of peace and war, what items were bought and sold, and how the market changed.

    The apprentice could, within the bounds of etiquette, also ask the master how he handled very different situations, very different customers, and learn firsthand all of the different aspects of being a master blacksmith.

    Compare this to how we teach and learn today. So much of the little stuff gets lost when you distill down a trade into textbooks (or blog posts), and some of the things lost along the way might be vital but not captured. For example, a master blacksmith may start his day with a very set routine for opening his shop. How much of that routine isn’t essential to being a good blacksmith?

    Here’s another example: for centuries, the formula for making Damascus steel was lost. Only through extensive research was the recipe ever recovered, and only recently. It turns out that a particular iron ore in the Damascus region was responsible, as it contained traces of vanadium, normally an impurity that you’d want to cull out in the steelmaking process. The knowledge that you should buy your ore from Assad on the eastern side of town was lost along the way and with it went Damascus steel, because textbooks say that vanadium is an impurity and not an essential ingredient, so no one ever thought to put it back in.

    How does this apply to modern day marketing, sales, and social media? Take a look at your own trade. Take a look at the people who are really successful at it, and if they allow it or freely share it, do your best to try out their systems for a period of time. Not just a few days, either – try it out for a longer duration, the same way an apprentice would, so that you can see how a system works in the ebb and flow of your own career.

    While there’s virtually no one offering any kind of formal apprenticeship in social media or marketing in the same style as old Japan, there are plenty of internships to be had. Ask, too. Ask folks you respect if they have internships available, because working as an intern might not pay well but someone might say, “Okay, intern, here’s my Twitter management system. I’m tired of doing this every day, so why don’t I show you and have you do it for a while…” and you’ll have the opportunity to see their system at work firsthand (and the results it generates).

    If you’re a successful practitioner of marketing, sales, or social media, generating impressive results, what would you teach an apprentice? How would you document your day, week, and month so that someone could see all the little things you do? (do you make coffee first or is there something else you do to start the day before coffee?)

    Most important, which of all those little things are responsible for your success?


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  • My upcoming webinar: email marketing for the 21st century

    New England XPOI’ll be doing a webinar on July 23 at 2 PM Eastern on 21st century email marketing, put on by my employer, Blue Sky Factory. In the webinar, I’ll be going over the 5 things every email marketer wants:

    1. More audience
    2. More delivery
    3. More opens
    4. More actions
    5. More/better metrics

    In terms of value, I’ll be covering a lot of new material, including what things you should be testing (we all talk about the importance of testing but no one ever helps you judge what should be tested in the first place), new ideas for content, and nearly instant ways to measure ROI.

    I’ve given previous versions of this talk at marketing conferences that charge hundreds or even thousands of dollars to attend. This webinar will be almost-free. There’s no out of pocket monetary cost, but in the spirit of full disclosure and setting expectations, you’ll get email and probably a phone call from a sales rep afterwards. The price of attendance is your attention, time, and a little bit of disk space for the email and voice mail message. If you think that’s a good value, then please feel free to sign up by clicking here.

    Lame FTC disclosure: Blue Sky Factory is my employer and thus your attendance at this webinar provides direct financial benefit to me. If I don’t suck at what I do, it should provide indirect financial benefit to you, too via making you a better marketer.


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  • Throwing mattresses and social media

    DoorOne of my favorite learning and teaching metaphors comes by way of both the martial arts and Quantum Teaching (Amazon link). Imagine for a moment that the knowledge you have to impart to students is in the shape of a mattress. Imagine that it’s immutable, meaning you can’t magically shrink it or carve it up.

    Now imagine that the minds of your students are like doorways, but a wide variety of doorways. Some have narrow doors. Some have french doors cast open. Some have a portcullis. Some have a screen door.

    Your job as a teacher is to fling the mattresses through the door into the students’ minds. Assuming you are strong enough and skilled enough to do so, this should be a relatively simple matter, right?

    Here’s the catch: when you are teaching more than one person, you have more than one shape of doorway to get through. This is why most teaching isn’t as effective as it could be. Many teachers learn in educator training to fling a mattress just one way. It’ll get through for some students, students who are attuned enough to that teacher’s style or whose doors are wide enough to accommodate nearly any teacher’s style. For a significant number of students, however, the mattress will at best get only partway in the door. For some students, it’ll just bounce off completely.

    The very best teachers can work around this in a couple of different ways. Some teachers, like my teacher Mark Davis of the Boston Martial Arts Center can teach so richly that they effectively fling a whole bunch of mattresses all at once, knowing that at least one will get through. They teach to visual, auditory, and kinesthetic learners all at the same time. This sort of teaching is powerful and effective, but unfortunately for our larger education system, it takes decades to master. Decades of teacher training is not an amount of time we can easily spare for educator training.

    For teachers who are not outright masters of education, there’s inspiration to be had from social media in the form of crowdsourcing. In education, its called collaborative learning and fundamentally it means that the teacher does the best they can to get the mattress in the door of as many students as their skill permits, then asks those students (who have their own method of conveying information that may be more compatible with fellow students) to help them get mattresses in the doors where the teacher missed.

    For marketers, the implications of social media should be much more clear now when it comes to conveying information to your audience. Unless you are a master marketer, your mattresses are going to miss just as teachers do. If you are lucky, clever, or don’t have many people to market to, you can mitigate this to some degree, but you’ll still miss an uncomfortably large number of times. (this is the heart of persona marketing, by the way – finding statistically the greatest number of doors that can be reached with the fewest mattress flings)

    If you can energize your customers and evangelists, not to sell for you but to help you teach what you have to offer, you’ll suddenly find more mattresses in more prospective doors than ever before.

    So, how are you throwing your mattresses, whether as an educator or marketer? Are you getting into as many doors as you would like? If not, take some inspiration from social media and consider getting help from your audience while you work towards the lifetime achievement of being a master mattress thrower.


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  • Mandatory viewing: Sir Ken Robinson at TED 2010

    Mandatory viewing, especially if you’re thinking at all about education and how badly we’re failing the generations of students now in school. Read more at TED.com.


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  • Financial aid swansong: Massachusetts College Goal Sunday

    Financial aid swansong: Mass. College Goal Sunday

    It’s fitting that my last work in the world of financial aid was to volunteer at Massachusetts College Goal Sunday. This year’s CGS was significantly different for me personally than in years past for several reasons.

    First, this is the first year I’ve presented at College Goal Sunday.

    Second, this is the last time I’ll be working in the financial aid industry after my departure at Edvisors.

    Third, the differences in the FAFSA and FAFSA on the Web worksheets this made for a more complex, more challenging College Goal Sunday than ever before.

    Let’s start with the first – relatively late in the process of creating this event, I was asked to present for the Framingham/Metrowest site. I spent some time reviewing and editing the presentation beforehand, working with the national College Goal Sunday committee to make it a little more streamlined…

    … but the projector at our site didn’t work, so I ended up winging it instead. The truest test of a presenter is when everything goes wrong and that lovely slide deck you made just flat out doesn’t work. How well do you know your stuff? I’m proud to say that having none of my slides didn’t compromise the presentation at all – and in fact might have helped because the audience then HAD to listen to me and couldn’t mix up their verbal brains trying to read slides and listen to me talk at the same time.

    On the second point, I can say pretty much whatever I want now that I no longer work in the industry. This is rather liberating.

    Here’s the biggest challenge that we had at this year’s College Goal Sunday. The form given to students and families, the FAFSA on the Web Worksheet, is basically not worth the paper it’s printed on. It’s supposed to make the FAFSA process easier and more friendly, but instead makes it deeply confusing and frustrating for many students.

    If you look at the slide deck for presenters, there are half a dozen slides which are all labeled, “Important question not on the worksheet”. That the College Goal Sunday committee had to go to these lengths is a sad commentary on how poorly the government’s forms were created with regard to the online application. Things that are omitted? Well, for starters, questions like assets (cash on hand, in savings and checking – vital financial aid information) don’t appear anywhere on the worksheets but are in the online application. Someone just using the worksheets would be rather startled to be asked for a bunch of information that isn’t in their preparatory worksheets.

    Other questions that are deeply flawed? One of the biggest showstoppers – and one that caused more than one FAFSA application to completely fail – is the question about income tax paid in 2009. Again, this doesn’t appear anywhere on the worksheets. However, the wording in the online application is incredibly vague:

    “Enter the amount of your income tax for 2009”.

    This single question caused more errors and blowups in the application than any other, of the families I worked with. What should the question actually say?

    “How much did you pay to Uncle Sam in taxes (NOT withholding, not your annual income, not anything other than what’s on line 55 of your IRS 1040) last year?”

    Very few of the families who completed the FAFSA got this question down in the first attempt. Many got to the end of the application and were confronted with an error correction screen saying that the numbers in their application didn’t add up.

    Another doozy, one that can affect your financial aid significantly in some cases? There’s a question about your adjusted gross income in 2009. In the online application, there’s a “helpful calculator” which supposedly can help families estimate how much their AGI is. As far as I can tell, this calculator doesn’t do anything useful, which is a shame since there are several adjustments that CAN change your adjusted gross income, which in turn can change your financial aid eligibility, such as the tuition and fees adjustment or the student loan interest adjustment. None of these are accounted for in the online application.

    There are also some interesting interface issues with the online version of the FAFSA, one of which is a dealbreaker of sorts for people looking for help. Along the righthand side of the application, there are floating help boxes that change contextually based on what question you’re on. Lots of students and families today said they couldn’t find the help system at all…

    because they thought those boxes were ads. They’re strategically located in almost the exact same spot as you’d run a skyscraper banner ad, and if you look at studies of how our brains interact with web pages, we nearly automatically ignore advertisements like banner ads.

    I’ve nothing but positive remarks for the staff and volunteers for this year’s College Goal Sunday. As usual, everyone who volunteered did so out of the goodness of their hearts, giving up a Sunday afternoon to help students and families figure out the world of financial aid and get them started on that path. I commend the folks at MASFAA and its partners for continuing to make this important day happen every year. I just wish Uncle Sam made it easier for those families to get through the paperwork to accomplish their educational goals.

    Finally, College Goal Sunday was a great note to end my career in financial aid on. Nothing’s better than helping other people, and that’s a great way to go out.

    Stay tuned tomorrow at noon eastern time for where I’m going next…


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  • Advanced Social Media Course is Live!

    USFI’m proud to announce that after several months of very hard work and significant effort on the parts of the University of San Francisco and our instructors, the Advanced Social Media certificate course is now live and available to the world!

    In this eight week course, you’ll get instruction from true social media experts and marketers like Jay Berkowitz, Jim Kukral, CC Chapman, and myself, plus expert legal advice from lawyers David Bates and Gaida Zirkelbach on managing the risks and best practices of social media from a legal perspective.

    What’s so different about this course versus every other social media thing on the Web?

    Since I designed the course, I have a fairly good idea of what went into it and who’s teaching, and I can say we’ve got some great content and a top-notch roster of experienced people who’ve generated real world results using social media.

    When I put it together a few months ago, I wanted to create a course that approached different practice areas of social media – marketing, advertising, PR, small business, agency work – and cross-cut that with social media practices. For example, the lectures fall into 7 tracks:

    Track 1: Basics, review, concepts
    Track 2: Marketing perspective
    Track 3: Public relations perspective
    Track 4: Service perspective
    Track 5: Monetization/commercialization perspective
    Track 6: Executive/strategic perspective
    Track 7: Tool Time

    Then the course runs over 8 weeks, with these 8 topics:

    Week 1: Introduction to Social Media
    Week 2: Listening/Monitoring
    Week 3: Creation
    Week 4: Communcation
    Week 5: Metrics and Science
    Week 6: Legal and Ethical Considerations
    Week 7: Adopting Social Media
    Week 8: Case Studies

    Overall, I think the course delivers an exceptionally solid, well-rounded perspective of social media. The one aspect of this course that makes it so very different from other social media courses is the lab track. Each week, I ask course participants to do some outside work in “labs” that should deliver to graduates of the course a working social media presence at the end of the 8 week course:

    Lab 1: Set up accounts on major social media sites, plus a personal blog and affiliate account
    Lab 2: Create a listening dashboard in Google Reader
    Lab 3: Create content for your site and distribute on social media platforms
    Lab 4: Participate in one open forum (e.g. #journchat)
    Lab 5: Analyze 5 weeks’ of your data and derive conclusions about where your traffic is coming from and why
    Lab 6: Assess potential risks and practices for your own niche
    Lab 7: Make at least $1 in affiliate sales from your efforts thus far.
    Lab 8: Draft your own case study and publish on your blog

    If students fully participate in the course and do the coursework and the labs, by the time they graduate, they’ll have a serious social media presence and the skills and experience needed to make social media work for them and the businesses or organizations they work for. There’s no other course quite like this one out there, and so I’m really thrilled that it’s live and running. On top of that, the course is offered through an accredited university and has financial aid and other goodies available with it that many other courses don’t have.

    If you’d like to know more about this course, please visit this page on Edvisors.com and request your free information packet.

    Full disclosure: Edvisors.com has an affiliate relationship with USF and earns a very nominal fee for referring prospective students to USF. I in turn work for Edvisors.com and a very small part of that very nominal fee ends up in my pocket as part of my salary.


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  • The power of not yet

    There’s a little too much no out there.

    No, you can’t.
    No, you don’t have that.
    No, that’s not affordable.
    No, you’re not good enough.
    No, you don’t know how to do that.
    No, you can’t reach those customers.

    The problem with no is in the finality of its tone. No cuts off possibility, especially inside your own head. Are you good enough to get this job? If your mind says no, then you move on – but chances are, you don’t come back, and that door of opportunity closes forever in your mind.

    Not yet is the secret to coming back. It changes a definitive lack of possibility into a time-deferred possibility. It provides your own mind a way to acknowledge a realistic lack of resources, time, or knowledge without cutting yourself off from future potential.

    Flowers of June

    No says cut down the plant, it’ll never flower and it’s a waste of time and energy.

    Not yet says you’re too early, but the buds are there and the blossoms will appear if you’re willing to be patient and keep caring for the plant.

    This is super important if you’re dealing with anyone trying to learn, be it a student, child, or friend. If you ask an adult if they’re good at math, chances are they’ve got a lot of emotional baggage with that question and more often than not, you get an ashamed no, bringing back all kinds of unpleasant memories from childhood when someone told them that they were bad at math. Help them to reframe that answer into not yet, because it’s entirely possible to relearn something as an adult and develop amazing proficiency – if your mind is open to the possibility.

    With children, this is even more important. If they believe no about themselves on a topic or field of study, that part of their future is gone forever. If you can teach a child to say not yet, and to believe that it’s just a question of more time to study something, that door remains open for them, and that potential can be revisited later on in life, perhaps with a better teacher.

    What are you currently saying no to right now that you could be saying not yet to?

    What potential have you taken away from yourself in the past that you can now go back to, knowing that you didn’t really mean no, but instead meant not yet?

  • A question of academic credentials

    Blogging today over here about academic credentials and whether they matter or not. Your thoughts and comments welcomed!


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