Christopher S. Penn – Marketing AI Keynote Speaker

Category: On ko chi shin

The name is the result
I had the pleasure and privilege to attend New England Warrior Camp again this year (my 11th out of 13) in the woods of Sudbury, Massachusetts this past weekend. Others have done a much better job illuminating the actual goings-on, such as my friend and senior, Jon Merz. One of my huge takeaways from the weekend, however, came from one of the training sessions.

Dennis Mahoney, head instructor at Shinobi Martial Arts, gave us this important lesson in his session:

The name of a technique describes the effect on your attacker, not what you do.

In the martial arts, we get so fixated on what we’re supposed to be doing that we forget completely about what we’re supposed to be achieving. Dennis’ session was a stark reminder that our goal is what matters, not our method. As a martial artist, you can get to omotegyakutedori, the outward wrist twist catch and lock, with your hands, arms, feet, weapons, probably even a used cheeseburger container. As long as you achieve the effects of getting the upper quarter of the body locked up, spine locked, and arm assembly locked, you’ve more or less achieved the technique.

Where most of us go wrong is in rigid insistence that we move exactly a certain way, hold the hand or wrist in exactly the right manner at exactly the right angle – despite the fact that conditions and situations may dictate a completely different set of methods to get to the desired result. Instead of adapting to the situation and working towards a goal, we get bogged down in “the way we’re supposed to do it”, as though attackers use textbook methods to assault us.

So what does this have to do with anything outside the martial arts? Think about how insistent some people can be on any particular marketing method. You MUST be using social media! You MUST be using email marketing! You MUST be doing SEO.

Well, no. What you MUST do is know what outcome you are trying to achieve, and then figure out which of the tools in your toolbox can help you achieve that result. Think about that for a second. What’s the purpose of email marketing? To reach out to people and let them know about stuff that’s going on, right? What else can do that? Email can, certainly. So can Twitter. So can LinkedIn, Facebook, etc.. All of those have mechanisms for outreach, and thus if the desired effect is “let people know stuff is going on”, then the thing we call email marketing isn’t just POP3, SMTP, and IMAP, but a collection of tools to reach people and a way of doing it that makes them glad to hear from us.

Here’s another example: search engine optimization. This means being findable, right? Findable where? Our narrow view of marketing says that we obey the dictates of Google, and while that’s important, being findable also means making sure your podcast is in iTunes, that your business can be located on various location services, that you have social profiles with consistent naming, and so on. Being findable is far more than just inbound link building.

The next time you sit down to evaluate your marketing, look at it from the perspective of what you want to achieve and then examine all of your tools to see if they can be used in that context. You might be surprised to realize that some of the tools in your toolbox have far more uses than what you’ve traditionally used them for.

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October 5, 2010
Three belief secrets about achieving your goals
On a team that you know has the potential but needs a little something extra to get cooking? I’ve been in that exact situation many, many times in my professional career, working with people who were incredibly talented but for one reason or another, their potential was staying locked away. Sir Ken Robinson said once that human resources are exactly like natural resources – it takes time, effort, and energy to dig out human potential and transform it into something useful.

One of the most useful tools for mining that potential, for bringing it to the surface, is goal setting. However, goal setting is more than just putting up endposts on a football field and then hoping that the players know what to do. Goal setting also involves belief setting, creating a three-part belief in your fellow team members. When each member of your team believes in all three parts, they become incredibly motivated to want to go the extra mile, to unleash their full power, to do whatever it takes to get the job done, to hit the goal.

The three part goal beliefs are:
- I believe in the goal, that it is worth achieving in an ethical sense.
- I believe in the process, that there is a clear path to the goal that I can travel.
- I believe in my team, that we are all aligned and focused on the goal, and will support each other to achieve the goal.
Each of these points is vitally important. A goal has to be worth achieving, not just in a financial or numerical sense, but in a higher sense, an understanding that the goal (whatever it is) somehow makes the world a little bit better. This is the part that drives passion, that drives motivation, that makes people volunteer untold hours a year for their favorite charities, that keeps people working long after everyone else has gone home. If the goal doesn’t make the world a better place in a clear fashion, strongly consider abandoning it.

A goal has to have a means of getting there. It’s fine to set a goal, but without a method for achieving it, it’s a daydream at best, a lazy wish rather than a process or recipe to follow that will get you to your destination. When you are setting your goals for yourself or others, think carefully about how you plan to get there.

A goal, even individually achieved, still has to have the backing of the people around you. No woman or man is an island. Everyone up to this moment in your life has in some way participated in getting you get to where you are. If you want to achieve your goals faster, more effectively, more powerfully, and more happily, you need the right team at your back to help you up when you fall down and cheer you on when you’ve hit a hot streak, with the understanding that you’ll do the same for them.

Take this triple secret to your next goal or mission and see if you can assert each part clearly, compactly, and strongly. If you can, I can promise you that you’ll get to your goal faster and arrive happier.

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September 16, 2010
Apprenticeship, little things, and formulae for success

In old Japan, it was fairly common for a young person in the tradesman class to be apprenticed to a master. Whether it was blacksmithing, cooking, or any tradeskill, apprenticeship was just about the only way to get an education. What’s interesting about old Japanese apprenticeships was the duration and work asked of the apprentice. In many cases, an apprentice would spend many years doing very menial work, like sweeping the floor of the blacksmith shop.

There’s a reason for this: unlike today, in which we teach only parts of any given discipline, being told to sweep the floor of the shop for four years taught something incredibly valuable to an apprentice. The apprentice got to see the total view of being a blacksmithing master.

What do I mean?

Everything from how the master greeted customers, to his accounting system, to his marketing, to his trade was witnessed by the apprentice. Instead of being told to market and greet customers in a textbook (with no details on how), the apprentice got to see the master working firsthand. The apprentice, over a period of years, got to understand the seasonality of the business and the ebb and flow of customers. Given the tumultuous times that comprised so much of medieval Japan, the apprentice likely got a chance to see what business was like in times of peace and war, what items were bought and sold, and how the market changed.

The apprentice could, within the bounds of etiquette, also ask the master how he handled very different situations, very different customers, and learn firsthand all of the different aspects of being a master blacksmith.

Compare this to how we teach and learn today. So much of the little stuff gets lost when you distill down a trade into textbooks (or blog posts), and some of the things lost along the way might be vital but not captured. For example, a master blacksmith may start his day with a very set routine for opening his shop. How much of that routine isn’t essential to being a good blacksmith?

Here’s another example: for centuries, the formula for making Damascus steel was lost. Only through extensive research was the recipe ever recovered, and only recently. It turns out that a particular iron ore in the Damascus region was responsible, as it contained traces of vanadium, normally an impurity that you’d want to cull out in the steelmaking process. The knowledge that you should buy your ore from Assad on the eastern side of town was lost along the way and with it went Damascus steel, because textbooks say that vanadium is an impurity and not an essential ingredient, so no one ever thought to put it back in.

How does this apply to modern day marketing, sales, and social media? Take a look at your own trade. Take a look at the people who are really successful at it, and if they allow it or freely share it, do your best to try out their systems for a period of time. Not just a few days, either – try it out for a longer duration, the same way an apprentice would, so that you can see how a system works in the ebb and flow of your own career.

While there’s virtually no one offering any kind of formal apprenticeship in social media or marketing in the same style as old Japan, there are plenty of internships to be had. Ask, too. Ask folks you respect if they have internships available, because working as an intern might not pay well but someone might say, “Okay, intern, here’s my Twitter management system. I’m tired of doing this every day, so why don’t I show you and have you do it for a while…” and you’ll have the opportunity to see their system at work firsthand (and the results it generates).

If you’re a successful practitioner of marketing, sales, or social media, generating impressive results, what would you teach an apprentice? How would you document your day, week, and month so that someone could see all the little things you do? (do you make coffee first or is there something else you do to start the day before coffee?)

Most important, which of all those little things are responsible for your success?

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August 4, 2010
Reminders of past successes to power your future

Ever had a day when you felt off, when you weren’t accomplishing what you needed to accomplish, or worse, felt as though you didn’t have the ability or capability to accomplish?

Those days can be the toughest to overcome because you’re effectively working against yourself. Part of you is at war with another part of you. The No We Can’t is mixing it up hard with the Yes We Can.

How do you put yourself back on track?

We look to some of the ninja traditions, traditions steeped in centuries of having to win against all odds, no matter what. One of these traditions known as the kuji kiri, or nine syllable cutting, might offer us some help on those days when we’re our own worst enemy. Master teacher Stephen K. Hayes describes the kuji kiri practice in part as a smashing of past successes together with potential future successes to help you make that breakthrough in the here and now. While you’d need to train directly with An-Shu Hayes for the actual kuji practices themselves, you can take inspiration from his words and implement the idea itself in your workplace or home.

What are the symbols and reminders in your life of past successes, of things that you absolutely got right? Maybe you have some keepsakes of sorts, whether they’re hard-won diplomas from school or photographs of childrens’ graduations. Perhaps it’s a newspaper article or a speaker’s review that highlights how successful you were in the past. Perhaps it’s a special song on an MP3 player that brings you back into that moment of crowning victory. It could even be a particular scent or perfume. Whatever it is, you know you’ve got it right when, as soon as you remember the past, all of the elation comes rushing back, energizing your mind and body.

Whatever your totems of success are, have them available as a potent reminder to yourself somewhere so that you can take a quick look, listen, or experience and be reminded of your full capacities and capabilities. It’s not an ego wall; you could keep your totems and sigils in a desk drawer or office closet if you felt the need for extreme modesty. Its function is not to impress others, but to remind you of who you really are and who you can be.

When you remind yourself of successes past, reinforce in yourself that if you take your self-doubt and cut it out, future success isn’t far away. You have physical, concrete evidence of your ability to generate results. When that belief in yourself flags, re-experience just how capable you really are, and use that to restart your momentum towards more success!

If you’d like more information on the actual study and practice of the kuji kiri, An-shu Hayes has a couple of educational history programs to get you started on DVD.

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August 2, 2010
Solving the marketing frustration of knowing too little or too much

someone wrote a great blog post the other day about marketers spending too much time consuming, studying, and theorizing, but not enough time doing.

There’s a flip side to this problem, too – marketers who spend all their time doing, so much so that they’re stuck with the same solutions they’ve been using for problems that are in the distant past now, like the best structure for a Yellow Pages ad.

Two extremes: knowledge without experience, experience without knowledge.

In the absence of a mentor or teacher, the problem can be made worse by thinking that the problem is the solution. The theoretical marketer thinks that just one more conference, one more trade show, one more Webinar will contain the piece they need to “get it”… and meanwhile their sales team starves to death from a lack of any inbound leads.

The practicing only marketer keeps working and working and working, 60, 80, 100 hours a week, seeing rapid diminishing returns, and wonders why they just can’t get ahead when all their competitors are racing by them, not realizing that their methods grow more ineffective by the day. Their sales team starves to death, too, as the flow of leads trickles to nothing.

In the absence of a mentor or teacher, you as a marketer have to pay careful attention to your own feelings when you run into trouble, tough times, or diminishing returns so that you know which problem you must solve.

A clear sign of the marketer who has more than enough theory but not enough practice is someone who knows exactly how to solve a given marketing problem but feels they have no time to do it and still keep up with what’s going on. It’s frustration, but that frustration comes with a sense of, “Why doesn’t anyone else know this?”. Get out of the ivory tower, close the RSS reader, turn the tubes off, and use the knowledge that’s overflowing in your head to make some rapid power moves that will move the needle quickly.

A clear sign of the marketer who has tons of practical experience but not enough fresh knowledge is someone who faces a problem and can’t find a solution. You know there’s a solution out there, you know it’s possible to solve your problem because you see colleagues and competitors solving it, but you can’t for the life of you figure out what the solution is. You feel like you have to work harder just to tread water. It’s also frustration, but that frustration comes with a tinge of desperate anger, wishing something would just work, thinking that the breakthrough will happen if you put in just a few more hours. Time to hang up your hat for a little while, delegate if you can, accept a short term loss if you must, and get out of the office and into some fresh knowledge and ideas.

The theoretical marketer who puts some wear and tear on their shoes quickly gains a much better understanding of all the tools and ideas they have and gains the ability to decisively cut away things that sound good in theory but fail in application. This is someone you want on your team.

The practical marketer who gets some fresh ideas quickly and almost instinctively adapts the fresh new knowledge to processes and audiences they know by heart, making ideas come to life more vibrantly than the idea’s originator ever dreamed. In a very short time, the idea inventor is probably calling the practical marketer to do a case study. This is also someone you want on your team.

The lesson is one that is as old as time itself, one I learned from master teacher Ken Savage of the Winchendon Martial Arts Center: knowledge + experience = wisdom. One without the other produces no results. Both in balance produce incredible results.

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July 30, 2010
5 old sales tricks made new again

5 old sales tricks made new again

Anyone ever take one of the old sales trainings from back in the day – Zig Ziglar, Tom Hopkins, etc.? There were tons of interesting tips and tricks for sales folks from a time when sales people had to work insanely hard with terrible tools (or no tools at all) and still make their numbers. No Salesforce.com or Zoho CRM to remind you who you forgot to call, no social media or SEO to bring prospects to your door, nothing but your leather binder, day planner, telephone, and a suit & tie.

Some of the tricks from those old trainings can be modernized, though, and some can be brought back as huge differentiators in the digital world. Here’s a few:

1. Thank you cards. This is something Ziglar was absolutely punishing on. You had to send thank you cards. No surprise, in the age of electronic automation of everything, a handwritten thank you card to a closed sale makes a huge impression because it’s so out of the ordinary.

2. Thinking about you. Want to know a really silly simple trick to stay top of mind with someone you’re trying to win over? Set up a Google alert for their top SEO term (check their web site, and if it looks like they have no SEO, take your best guess) and then when news articles and alerts pop up in Alerts, check them for quality and forward them. Back in the day, Hopkins would recommend taking the local newspaper and sending clippings to prospects. Google Alerts and Google Reader make that much, much simpler.

3. Thinking about you part 2. “Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.” -Dale Carnegie. Monitor your best prospects and their company names and send them stuff about them as you can. There are actually paid services that do nothing but clip stuff out of papers and magazines and try to resell it to you at obscene prices, especially after you’ve won an award. “Wouldn’t you like a nicely framed version of your article?” crap. Do it yourself for your best prospects. If there’s someone you want to blow away, frame it yourself and send it over for free. For everyone else, send them at least an electronic “clipping”.

4. Fedex to the door. Email gets filtered. Postal mail gets shredded. Shipped boxes tend to get delivered and opened in case there’s something important inside. Got someone (Fortune 500 CEO, etc.) that you absolutely positively have to reach? Pay the $10 or so to ship a letter, CD, DVD, etc. via Fedex. Obviously, you’d only do this for a shot at a huge deal, but what a shot it makes.

5. Flip cam, iPhone cam, webcam. Back in the day, Hopkins would recommend trying to record yourself on the phone in a very awkward manner by holding a giant tape recorder (does anyone even remember those) up while you spoke so that you could listen to yourself on a call. These days, recording technology is incredible. Make use of it. Set up a little Flip cam, phone camera, whatever you’ve got that can record audio and video, then watch and listen to yourself on the phone. This is killer for public speakers too – don’t record just yourself! If budget and venue permit, record your audience and watch how they react. If you call using services and software like Skype, you can record both sides of the conversation (make sure you notify the person you’re talking to as it’s illegal to do so otherwise in some states).

There’s no shortage of old ideas that can be made new again if you’re willing to do some creative thinking and apply them to the best practices of yesteryear for results today. As my teacher Mark Davis of the Boston Martial Arts Center says, “on ko chi shin” – study something old to learn something new.

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July 28, 2010
What the martial arts teach us about marketing basics

DJ Waldow asked:

We talk/preach a ton about “advanced email marketing” yet so many folks are stuck on basics. Refocus conversation? Thoughts?

And Amber Naslund also commented:

I wonder how much of our quest for “what’s next” is really centered in our uncomfortable misunderstanding of the basics.

These are closely related. In the martial arts, the basics are so much more than just simile exercises. The Japanese word for basics is kihon, which means both basics and foundation, as in the foundation of a building. Starting martial arts practice with strong basics is like starting a building with two foot thick concrete and two inch thick rebar – a rock solid base on which to build. Skipping the basics or trying to hurry past them is like pouring the flimsiest foundation of cheap concrete. How large a house can you build on that?

Where the martial arts (good ones, anyway) differ is the continued emphasis on the basics. We learn the basics but constantly revisit them to refine our understanding and improve them. As our basics get stronger, the “advanced” material (which is comprised of basics strategically arranged and put together) improve as well. Because advanced material relies on the basics, if we stop refining them, our advanced skills and techniques suffer as well.

Why don’t we like the basics? Why do we ignore them or skip past them? It’s human habit. We have a tendency to view knowledge as a discrete container. How to cook an egg? I know that. How to send an email campaign? I know that. Because of the way our education system works, we assume that once we know something, we possess that knowledge and don’t need to revisit it. Geometry? Learned that in 9th grade. Algebra? Learned that in 8th grade. As a result of this educational framework (which is learned), the habit of thinking that we’ve learned something persists into adulthood and our professional lives.

Think about it this way. You once learned how to cook scrambled eggs. Has it ever occurred to you to research that simple breakfast dish some more and see what other ways you can make them? For example, you can add a touch of milk or cream to slow down the protein setting, giving you more control over cooking time. You can use an immersion blender to aerate the mixture and make your eggs lighter and fluffier. You can add salt in advance to give a more even flavor, or a small dash of truffle oil before cooking to increase the umami flavor. Ask a thousand ordinary non-chef folks how often they go back and revisit their scrambled eggs and the number wil be a very small minority. Yet if you are constantly and consistently improving your basics, is breakfast at your house going to get better or worse?

Without rock solid, continuously refined basics, we won’t get the results we want. We’ll get folks stuck, as DJ says, or we’ll get folks who are discontent as Amber says.

So how do you improve and refine your basics, instead of getting frustrated repeating the same thing over and over again? Well, repetition is where you start. You watch a master teacher demonstrate the basics, and then you work for a really long time to get your basics to that level. Along the way, your teacher will probably show you variations on the basics to help you better understand their essence. A teacher might show you, for example, what an egg scrambled in a cast iron pan tastes like vs. a non-stick pan. Once you’ve mastered the basics and distilled down their essence by practicing many, many variations, you’ll understand that essential core of the basics and be able to translate it to other things. For example, once you truly and deeply understand the chemistry, physics, and culinary aspects of scrambled eggs, suddenly things like mayonnaise and Hollandaise sauce become simple to grasp and simpler to make.

What if you don’t have a teacher? Find one. Again, in the Japanese martial arts, the word for teacher is sensei, which literally means before born – someone who is farther down the path you’re on and can help you around all of the mistakes they’ve made blazing that trail. They’ll show you where they went wrong and if you’re a good student, you’ll make fewer of the mistakes than they did. They can help you recover from mistakes faster and with less harm than they incurred (which is why teachers are so respected – they’re saving you tremendous pain) than if you were flailing around blindly.

If you feel like the basics elude you or that you’re discontent with the basics, whether it’s marketing, cooking, or martial arts, go find a good teacher and learn from them. The path always gets easier and more fun when you’ve got a great guide.

If you’re in either the metro Boston or Dayton areas, be sure to check out my teachers, Sensei Mark Davis of the Boston Martial Arts Center and An-Shu Stephen K. Hayes of the Dayton Quest Center.

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July 25, 2010
6 minute stressbuster meditation

A few folks have lately needed to make use of this 6 minute guided meditation I made a few years ago. It’s not tied specifically to any one tradition or religious practice, just a way of getting yourself recentered by using your senses and some music. Give it a try, and let me know how it works for you.

6 minute meditation MP3

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Please DO SHARE IT with anyone you think might benefit from it.

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April 23, 2010
What marketing can learn from martial arts mistakes
One of the “secrets” that one of my teachers, Ken Savage of the Winchendon Martial Arts Center, says is that if a technique is not working, something in the previous step went wrong. If a throw isn’t working, perhaps your footwork or positioning in the entry was wrong. If a kata (pre-arranged routine) isn’t working at a certain point, rewind just one step to see if there’s something that can be adjusted there, some effect that can be repaired so that the chain reaction of mistakes subsequent to the initial error can be prevented.

Very often as martial artists, we’ll try to force our way through a technique that is failing without going back through the chain of events to figure out where the first obvious mistake is, then taking one step back more to see the precursor events that generated the mistake. If we can do that, if we can find the pre-error conditions that create the error, all the subsequent mistakes, all the frustration, all the brute force can be done away with.

Marketing, believe it or not, is no different. One of the dangers of being focused solely on a metric like qualified leads (which is a vital, vital metric) is that we see the end result but no information about the process that generated the result. Things like web site traffic, visits to a landing page, Twitter followers, etc. are not revenue generation metrics, but are still important to the extent that they’re diagnostic metrics that illuminate where we have made mistakes.

If, for example, we look at web site traffic as a diagnostic rather than a goal, we can see the impact of social media. If we make a serious mistake with our social media efforts, we may never see it in the social context itself, but we will see it as our first obvious mistake in our web traffic statistics as a drop in traffic from social sites.

If we look at event tracking statistics like Google’s trackEvent calls on web site objects like buttons, we may see obvious changes in the number of clicks on a button that indicates a mistake has happened in the design of that page, and if we change the design, we should see the effects in the subsequent step, clicks on the button.

Like martial artists, marketers who don’t know how to diagnose their techniques resort to brute force with mixed results at best. If your solution to every marketing problem is “throw more traffic at it!” or “spend more money on ads!” or “do more SEO!” without an understanding of what’s broken in your processes and where, you’ll just waste time, energy, and resources without fixing the fundamental issues.

Whether you’re a marketer or martial artist, map out your processes and try to figure out where your first mistakes occur. Then take one step back. Start as early on in your technique as possible, and you may find that instead of having to fix all your mistakes all over the place, addressing an early-on, root cause problem may fix a bunch of things downstream and save you immense time and frustration.

Oh, and if you’re in the Winchendon, MA area, go visit the Winchendon Martial Arts Center. You’ll be hard pressed to find a better martial arts school anywhere in north central Massachusetts.

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March 17, 2010
Ninja Mind Control Trick

So much of what we perceive is defined by subtle cues and clues. Ever heard the cliche that clothes make the man? Like many cliches, it’s mostly true. The clothes you wear do indeed change the perceptions of others, controlling at least the initial impression, the blink, that you make. That’s just the tip of the iceberg, though.

Even more control can be exerted by controlling what your nonverbal language says. Watch how different people do seemingly mundane actions – opening doors (do they hold doors for others? if so, how?), shaking hands, sitting down in chairs. Does their body language convey a sense of control over themselves? Elegance? Casual ease? All of these little things matter as a collective way to measure what kind of person someone is.

What are you conveying in your own language, in your own style? Have a friend follow you around for a little while, especially at a conference or event, and just keep a video camera recording you. Record the little stuff, too, like getting up to get a cup of coffee or checking your email.

Watch the footage of yourself and ask yourself what habits you have that aren’t conveying the kind of impression you want to convey. Ask yourself if the habits you have are reinforcing in others a perception that you no longer want attached to yourself. Are you careless in your body language? Sloppy? Timid? What don’t you want to be any more?

Next, try this experiment: determine what impressions you want to make on other people. If you want to be perceived as a competent, effective policeman, find as much material to study like video footage and on-the-street observation as you can to isolate the behaviors that those you perceive as effective perform. If you want to be perceived as a successful public speaker, what cues and behavioral traits do you see and can you model?

Extend it a step further and look at how your successful role model operates in an online capacity. If you’re going for the respected dignitary or celebrity, what do the folks you deem successful say and do online? If you’re going for the rock musician persona, drunk tweeting is not only appropriate but expected – consider doing so even if you’re stone cold sober, for example. How often do the people you believe to be successful blog, for example? What do they blog about? What do their profiles say about themselves online?

Take your new modeled behaviors out for a test drive. It can be incredibly difficult to effect change when those who know you best are accustomed to (and therefore locking you into) certain behaviors. Go to a conference or meetup where the majority of people have no idea who you are, and test out the traits you’re modeling. Start up a different online account and model some behaviors. See what a new you might look, feel, and act like. The opportunities to interact with people you don’t know and change who you are as a result are more limitless than ever.

The ultimate mind control trick is on you – and that’s a good thing. We as human beings respond to feedback loops. The more the people around us tell us we’re worthless, the more we begin to behave and believe that we’re worthless. The more that people around us tell us that we’re a rockstar, the more we begin to behave and believe that we’re a rockstar. You aren’t told by the company you keep – you become the company you keep. Changing the perceptions of those around you of the kind of person you are changes how they treat you, which in turn changes your perception of yourself.

Decide who you want to be. Decide who you know, who you have access to, that’s successful (in whatever success means to you), determine what behaviors they have that contribute to the perceptions of their success, and try them out for yourself.

Try it!

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March 15, 2010

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